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[kaijyuu]

I have no good advice for that, so have some bad advice:

Approach her while drunk. All your inhibitions will be gone.

[misko27]

You secretive bastard.

As for the sads, I have crippling social anxiety when it comes to girls and this is impeding my progress with wooing my crush. Life sucks. D:

And by impeding, I mean making no progress at all.

Making no progress is bad. Going backwards is worse. Waiting too long makes that occur. Trust me on that. Seriously, waiting is BAD. I waited, and am now miserable and alone. Is not as fun as it sounds. Seriously, worjkup a nerve and do something, or give-up now and save yourself heart-ache.

As for me, I actually don't tell many people anything at all. I suppose I have divulged more to non-family sources, but still.

[Hanslanda]

You secretive bastard.

As for the sads, I have crippling social anxiety when it comes to girls and this is impeding my progress with wooing my crush. Life sucks. D:

And by impeding, I mean making no progress at all.

It'll be okay. Practice makes perfect. Eventually. Just keep trying to overcome the shyness, and you'll get there.

[kaijyuu]

Oh and yeah, talking to people outside of my family about stuff before I talk to them is pretty much standard for me as well. Should be obvious, as I'm very open about being bi, liking porn, etc etc here but kept that a secret for a very long time to them.

[Yoink]

I have no good advice for that, so have some bad advice:

Approach her while drunk. All your inhibitions will be gone.

I don't see that as bad advice... You don't have to be really drunk, anyway. For me, just one or two beers and BAM! I am suddenly sociable, cracking jokes and being the life of the party. Even if sometimes it's a little hard to make my words come out right.

[Trapezohedron]

Problem is, I am always waiting "for the right time" to approach her, and it's sembreak, and most likely we're not going to share a class anymore, which makes things worse.

I waited too long. I guess I botched it. And I'm still as indecisive as ever.

Fuck.

[Sirus]

Hold up, y'all. Is New Guy even old enough to drink?

Ninja:

Problem is, I am always waiting "for the right time" to approach her, and it's sembreak, and most likely we're not going to share a class anymore, which makes things worse.

I waited too long. I guess I botched it. And I'm still as indecisive as ever.

Fuck.

That's why Facebook and other such sites were invented.

[kaijyuu]

If you really want to start dating, I do suggest asking someone out you don't have a crush on. That way you can deal with some of the inevitable rejections much easier, since you don't have any emotional investment (yet).

[misko27]

Problem is, I am always waiting "for the right time" to approach her, and it's sembreak, and most likely we're not going to share a class anymore, which makes things worse.

I waited too long. I guess I botched it. And I'm still as indecisive as ever.

Fuck.

Deja vu. That was my EXACT situation.  Except for the part where you didn't miserably embarass yourself.

Hold up, y'all. Is New Guy even old enough to drink?

Ninja:

Problem is, I am always waiting "for the right time" to approach her, and it's sembreak, and most likely we're not going to share a class anymore, which makes things worse.

I waited too long. I guess I botched it. And I'm still as indecisive as ever.

Fuck.

That's why Facebook and other such sites were invented.

I how I did it eventually

I have no good advice for that, so have some bad advice:

Approach her while drunk. All your inhibitions will be gone.

I don't see that as bad advice... You don't have to be really drunk, anyway. For me, just one or two beers and BAM! I am suddenly sociable, cracking jokes and being the life of the party. Even if sometimes it's a little hard to make my words come out right.

Am Slavic, require many more then 2 beers. It sounds Like I can hold more now at age 15 then you can.

If you really want to start dating, I do suggest asking someone out you don't have a crush on. That way you can deal with some of the inevitable rejections much easier, since you don't have any emotional investment (yet).

Is all good advice. Wish I had come here for advice. Damn it.

[Trapezohedron]

I am old enough to drink, but I don't ever drink. Not in my habit to, and not my interest.

Hold up, y'all. Is New Guy even old enough to drink?

Ninja:

Problem is, I am always waiting "for the right time" to approach her, and it's sembreak, and most likely we're not going to share a class anymore, which makes things worse.

I waited too long. I guess I botched it. And I'm still as indecisive as ever.

Fuck.

That's why Facebook and other such sites were invented.

Yes, but you see, when you don't have topics to say, you don't ever get to talk to others. I am the silent type, stuck in eternal self-reflection limbo. Too distracted with my own to start talking to anyone.

If you really want to start dating, I do suggest asking someone out you don't have a crush on. That way you can deal with some of the inevitable rejections much easier, since you don't have any emotional investment (yet).

I... don't know. Yes, I'd like to love somebody, but somehow, this whole "love" thing is also putting me off somewhat. Seems awkward. Don't know why.

E: Only hope I think to getting her is if she starts making the moves (not likely, considering the gender roles thing), because I think she's also in to me. Sends very obvious signals of attraction which get broadcasted to her friends and somehow sent to me.

I think we're this.

[Tellemurius]

hooray my job laid me off :/

[misko27]

E: Only hope I think to getting her is if she starts making the moves (not likely, considering the gender roles thing), because I think she's also in to me. Sends very obvious signals of attraction which get broadcasted to her friends and somehow sent to me.

I think we're this.

Oh. You're not screwed. Still have chance. Make move soon though.

[Hanslanda]

hooray my job laid me off :/

That sucks bro.

[Nadaka]

I may have made a mistake, but I don't know it yet.

I had a coffee flavored bowl of icecream... on top of my hard lemonades and crown royal.

[Trapezohedron]

E: Only hope I think to getting her is if she starts making the moves (not likely, considering the gender roles thing), because I think she's also in to me. Sends very obvious signals of attraction which get broadcasted to her friends and somehow sent to me.

I think we're this.

Oh. You're not screwed. Still have chance. Make move soon though.

I wish I could. We barely talk, and I don't know her that much. Social Anxiety gets to my guts before I can do something, and I guess admitting I have feelings for her on FB would totally be lame. I don't even keep in touch with her through texting, let alone ask her out to meet me somewhere.

hooray my job laid me off :/

That sucks bro.

What sucks more is when you lose your job and the government starts looking for you because you were suspected to be part of a scam when you were the victim all along.

/lifestory