Talked to my lesbian friend today. Once more, very confused again. This would all be so much easier if she was for sure 100% gay, which... Well, frankly she isn't. There's been little things she's done and said that point to her being somewhat bi.
That's not good. But it is? Argh.
As someone else with a long-standing Only-Mostly-Lesbian friend, understand that sexuality is a sliding scale rather than a lever with three settings and sometimes individuals whom are found to be extremely attractive can supersede established sexuality.
Well. I believe, judging by what she has said in the past, that I qualify for the 'extremely attractive' thing. Not necessarily on looks, but she constantly tells me I'm a ladies man (even though I'm celibate) and wants to discuss sexual things all the time.
@Kaijyuu: I want to be her friend, and I've told her this, but human urges trip me up constantly. Plus, if she was interested in me sexually, I COULD say no, but it would become the issue of 'Do I WANT to say no?' Which rapidly gets complicated. And she knows I think she's fine, but also that I want to be friends. I've repeatedly mentioned how I've lost friends over sex and don't want that to happen again. So this is probably all over nothing in my own head.
But I'd prefer some advance warning if she's going to try to jump my bones.