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[Valid_Dark]

Back when I was engaged, she had a super huge crush on me, but was afraid of my fiance,
and I do like her, I just wish she'd get her shit together,

I just don't want to be alone

[MetalSlimeHunt]

In all seriousness, I think Reudh is... Bisexual...?

This is why we made the sexuality flags, people. (No it isn't.) How are we supposed to know your personal feelings of attraction through the internet if you don't use the flags?

I just don't want to be alone

There are worse things than being alone. Being desperate, for example.

[Hanslanda]

Back when I was engaged, she had a super huge crush on me, but was afraid of my fiance,
and I do like her, I just wish she'd get her shit together,

I just don't want to be alone

Hmm. Well, don't let her manipulate you. That's bad, m'kay? If she won't be upfront and stick to her word, make it clear that your boundaries will change. Don't threaten, just set boundaries.

I just don't want to be alone

There are worse things than being alone. Being desperate, for example.

God, desperate sucks. I was desperate, and that only made it worse. Now I'm just celibate, and it all works out perfectly.

[kaijyuu]

I just don't want to be alone

Then get YOUR shit together and realize that there are monsters out there that will abuse you for this fact. Hans could very well be right and if that's the case, you're setting yourself up for repeated stabs in the heart.


Have some respect for yourself. You deserve someone who won't manipulate and abuse you.

[Hanslanda]

I just don't want to be alone

Then get YOUR shit together and realize that there are monsters out there that will abuse you for this fact. Hans could very well be right and if that's the case, you're setting yourself up for repeated stabs in the heart.

Repeated. Stabs. Dear fucking christ, be careful bro. Many things are far worse than being alone, trust me. An abusive relationship is FAR FAR worse than being alone. Women can abuse you, and they'll never lay a finger on you to do it.

[Valid_Dark]

it's just shits weird for me right now

[Hanslanda]

That's all good. Just be careful. I can't judge your situation for you, but I can share my past experiences so you don't have to learn the way I did.

And one very important thing is: Set boundaries. Stick to your boundaries.

[kaijyuu]

it's just shits weird for me right now

It's okay dude. We're here for ya and don't want to see you get hurt.

Always remember that there are lots of fish in the sea.

[Reudh]

Just out of interest, I wonder what people think my sexuality is?

Welsh.

...Welsh is a sexuality?

D'uh.

In all seriousness.

Oh wait, I gave it away pretty much when I first joined the forum.

It means you fuck sheep, Reudh.

I...

I'm not from New Zealand. (Sorry to Zaerosz and any other Kiwis, but it had to be said.)

In all seriousness, I think Reudh is... Bisexual...?

INCORRECT.


I'm heterosexual. I did acting for a long time, so I'm rather flamboyant in my behaviour though.

In all seriousness.

In all seriousness I don't have any idea, and am only curious to know how appropriate it would be to hit on you (note that I might either way).

I don't mind guys hitting on me. I may even flirt back, but I never would enter a relationship or sleep with another guy. If, say... a guy kisses me, I would not kiss back. I would hope they were aware I was not bi/gay by the time they stated their intentions.

I am most definitely not a homophobe.

TL;DR: Not gay. Hetero. Sometimes a little flattered if hit on by guys, because it means that someone thinks I'm sexy.

it's just shits weird for me right now

It's okay dude. We're here for ya and don't want to see you get hurt.

Always remember that there are lots of fish in the sea.

Dave, if ever you're in Aus, we should grab a beer.

[Hanslanda]

Reudh: Hetero, but in an open-minded way.

[kaijyuu]

So no making out, but still teasing? Can do~

[Kamin]

So no making out, but still teasing? Can do~

Hahaha, I think I saw a picture of Reudh somewhere, and he looks 12. I imagine that it was an old picture, but it's strange for me to think that you might have been wanting to hit on a 12 year-old boy 

[Descan]

KAI TAKE OFF YOUR SKIRT

THAT'S FOR LADIES

AND SEXY MEN

AND SCOTTISH DUDES

So I guess you can keep wearing it.

I GUESS.

[Hanslanda]

Talked to my lesbian friend today. Once more, very confused again. This would all be so much easier if she was for sure 100% gay, which... Well, frankly she isn't. There's been little things she's done and said that point to her being somewhat bi.

That's not good. But it is? Argh.

KAI TAKE OFF YOUR SKIRT

THAT'S FOR LADIES

AND SEXY MEN

AND SCOTTISH DUDES

So I guess you can keep wearing it.

I GUESS.

wut.

[MetalSlimeHunt]

Talked to my lesbian friend today. Once more, very confused again. This would all be so much easier if she was for sure 100% gay, which... Well, frankly she isn't. There's been little things she's done and said that point to her being somewhat bi.

That's not good. But it is? Argh.

As someone else with a long-standing Only-Mostly-Lesbian friend, understand that sexuality is a sliding scale rather than a lever with three settings and sometimes individuals whom are found to be extremely attractive can supersede established sexuality.