Depressed, because of my brother's GF being a b*tch. She started an argument with my brother two days ago, spewing various nonsense and insults. Then, she wouldn't forgive him until he cried or bashed his head repeatedly on a solid surface. When I talked to her, she vehemently denied that she was the one who caused the whole argument problem. Instead, she had the nerve to keep insulting and blaming my brother about things subtly, even when he blacked-out, more or less. A few questioning here and there, she still seemed unfazed by the fact that he blacked-the-effing-out.
Then, after all that, when my brother finally woke up, I left. The next day after that, my brother blamed us (my mom was also there yesterday, who also asked what the f**k happened to them, and why her son is like this.) for supposedly blaming things on her. Mind you, we just asked her what happened, and told her not to fight my brother all the time. He told us to ask for an apology from her, because she was pissed at us, and angry at my brother for the whole questioning thing we did the day before.
Sometimes, trying to help others will just put you in the blame zone. If there was anyone to ask for an apology, it should've been her. But no, we were doing the wrong thing: Standing up for your family and siblings.
I've decided not to interfere with them anymore, even if that includes headbanging and loud crying.
E: Now, they're arguing again. About us, and what we did, which is ask and interrogating her. She hasn't gotten past the problem from two days ago yet. Dear God, when will this stop?