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[Simmura McCrea]

Impulsive?

Sure, I'll go with that one. It sounds close enough.

[Vector]

^ If you haven't gone back to eating yet, those would be two signs that you desperately need to eat.

[Simmura McCrea]

Well I am kinda hungry, but it's like the middle of the night.

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[Grimshot]

 I've started eating again, maybe my body just needs time to catch up.

[Pnx]

Internet outage prevented me from responding quicker.

See, if I come out, they'll start asking where I got this stupid idea, why I "suspect" and "am afraid" that I'm queer.  What media I was involved with, and with which people.  The problem is that I have too many gay friends, not that I made these friends because somehow we resonated with each other.  Because they didn't notice the signs, it must not be true.

I think you may just have a more, "mental" sexuality. I think (from the sounds of things) you've had a bad time with guys, so you're fixating on girls instead (which in my personal opinion tends to be the better choice). I know a lot of people say that they have no choice over their sexuality, but I tend to think we have more of a choice than we think we do, it's just a lot of the time people are afraid to consider over possibilities.

Personally I tend to be straight, but that didn't stop me developing a crush on a guy at least once before. Though the sexuality of that is debatable, since my crushes are generally "I want to hang onto every word this person says, and cuddle them, and hug them, and name them George", rather than "I really want to have sex with this person."
So I guess maybe I'd fit under the sexually confused category? *shrug*

[Vector]

Truth is, I've had an equally bad time with men and women, and spent a very, very, very long time trying to deny that I was also attracted to women (I started being attracted to both way before any of this happened--it started all the way back in middle school.  Honest).

So, yup.

[Pnx]

Ok, then let's just pretend I didn't stick my foot in my mouth again.

[Nadaka]

I forgot to have caffeine today.

[KaelGotDwarves]

Truth is, I've had an equally bad time with men and women, and spent a very, very, very long time trying to deny that I was also attracted to women (I started being attracted to both way before any of this happened--it started all the way back in middle school.  Honest).

So, yup.

/cue terrible advice mode

Don't let anything get you down. You are your own person, and even if you rely on your family for many things (including emotional support), you have the final say in which direction your life and sexuality goes and your parents and other people don't have a say in the matter - they can only influence. There are many chill people online and in the meatspace who share your predicament and views and will accept you/be friends because of it.

It's harder on you because you're still trying to figure it out and a nice person in wanting acceptance from family and friends and bothers you that they might not. But don't worry, it gets better! Some things do not need to be figured out or said now (or even ever). It's okay to be in a state of flux and transitory - it's not the end of the world. You'll find your path and find others that are similarly awesome; we're here for you - at least.
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On the sad note - I dreamt a succession of deaths and realised that I'm still stuck alternating between not giving a damn about my own and acutely wondering about the void that comes thereafter.

[Ochita]

Really tempted to buy a PS2 and Disgaea 1/2, but I've already spent probably too much money but it's really tempting aaaaaaaaaa.

EDIT: Could also get that Demon's Souls game and aaaaaaaaaa stop it.

Sorry. I didn't mean to internally conflict you.

[Bauglir]

Truth is, I've had an equally bad time with men and women, and spent a very, very, very long time trying to deny that I was also attracted to women (I started being attracted to both way before any of this happened--it started all the way back in middle school.  Honest).

So, yup.

/cue terrible advice mode

Don't let anything get you down. You are your own person, and even if you rely on your family for many things (including emotional support), you have the final say in which direction your life and sexuality goes and your parents and other people don't have a say in the matter - they can only influence. There are many chill people online and in the meatspace who share your predicament and views and will accept you/be friends because of it.

It's harder on you because you're still trying to figure it out and a nice person in wanting acceptance from family and friends and bothers you that they might not. But don't worry, it gets better! Some things do not need to be figured out or said now (or even ever). It's okay to be in a state of flux and transitory - it's not the end of the world. You'll find your path and find others that are similarly awesome; we're here for you - at least.

I don't understand. That wasn't terrible advice. All I'd add is that there's even nothing wrong with your path being transitory and a constant state of flux, except to the extent that you might dislike it being so (if any).

[MaximumZero]

I'm not super muscular, but I could pose as your boyfriend for your parents. Hell, all I'd have to do is stand around and flex a little. You could use me as a (rather short) coat rack. I'd be the perfect boyfriend.

[Tellemurius]

I'm not super muscular, but I could pose as your boyfriend for your parents. Hell, all I'd have to do is stand around and flex a little. You could use me as a (rather short) coat rack. I'd be the perfect boyfriend.

Hey man if anything we can photoshop some abs on that chest, you shall become MUSCULAR MAN!!!!

[MaximumZero]

Whoa, whoa. If we put abs on my chest, where will we put the fur?

[SirAaronIII]

On your stomach. We're flipping this turnways.