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[Taco Dan]

So I've realized that without the forum I don't have that much to distract me from how much I hate my life... And it only took me a weekend. So I'm back.

On another note, My life is enough crap that I hate it, but not enough crap so I feel like an asshole complaining about it. It's in that little spot.

[Sowelu]

Shit. Me and Yumi just had a massive argument. This is the first time we've ever fallen out over something. Not good...

Arguments are a natural part of relationships. If you aren't arguing ever you probably have problems that you just aren't talking about. So don't worry too much on that score.

If, after talking about things, you still have problems, then it is a warning sign for a relationship.

Yea, everybody has arguments once in a while. Both of you probably just need to chill for a bit.

It happens, and you need (as a couple) to have a way of handling it.  Here's some suggested rules for starters:
1) Never go to bed angry / say goodbye angry.  Even if there's still a disagreement at the end, work out the emotions so you're not angry with each other.
2) Don't bring up unrelated past incidents.  "You did X and I'm really mad" "Oh yeah well two weeks ago you did Y" is not productive, especially in the heat of the moment.  Keep it under control, deal with things on their own.

[Argembarger]

My car got broken into. Rear window smashed in.

Nothing was stolen; but that's because there was nothing to steal.

I don't know which fact I am more sad about.

[smjjames]

My car got broken into. Rear window smashed in.

Nothing was stolen; but that's because there was nothing to steal.

I don't know which fact I am more sad about.

At least your car itself wasn't stolen as that is itself something to steal.

[Argembarger]

My car is too crappy to be worth stealing 

[Blargityblarg]

My neck hurts. I guess there's a price to terrifying twelve-year-olds.

[Duke 2.0]

 Blerg. I realized in math today that I need to do a ton of studying on top of completely writing a 5 page essay for tomorrow on top of my new graphics card not being here despite shipping from like three states away. And my math professor won't open up the online homework again so I can study with it.
 Argh-sigh. If I even get the balls to start studying.

[ECrownofFire]

I'm finding it increasingly difficult to walk normally. Not so much sad as incredibly annoying, but it fits better than the happy thread. (Before you ask, it's not injury related or anything like that) It's mostly just an inconvenience, really. But only because I look kind of weird.

Then again, I do have a real sad thing. My dad's left/leaving for Afghanistan today (I don't know if he has left yet or not). He's going with the Navy, so he's going to basically be watching over some prisoners (I think that's what he said). But he's also going to be working on computers. So while he's not really in the most danger he could be in, I'm still worried for him. This is basically guerrilla warfare, which tends to be a lot more dangerous as well.

[smjjames]

I'm finding it increasingly difficult to walk normally. Not so much sad as incredibly annoying, but it fits better than the happy thread. (Before you ask, it's not injury related or anything like that) It's mostly just an inconvenience, really. But only because I look kind of weird.

What do you mean and how come? I'll butt out if I'm being too nosy.....

[Argembarger]

Give your father my respect and gratitude.

[The Merchant Of Menace]

Fucks sake. I gave my parent's every chance. I've finally cut off all contact with them and changed my number. I tried to keep in contact but my mum was ringing me up and shouting abuse at me. I feel like complete fucking crap right now... I knew I should never have got back into contact with them...

[ECrownofFire]

I'm finding it increasingly difficult to walk normally. Not so much sad as incredibly annoying, but it fits better than the happy thread. (Before you ask, it's not injury related or anything like that) It's mostly just an inconvenience, really. But only because I look kind of weird.

What do you mean and how come? I'll butt out if I'm being too nosy.....

No, it's fine. I'm just unconsciously walking on my toes. For example, I'll start walking, then notice "Wait, why am I walking on my toes?". Having to make a conscious effort to NOT do it is annoying.

[Mindmaker]

You could sum up my life in a game of LoL.
Pretty sad.

[MetalSlimeHunt]

Fucks sake. I gave my parent's every chance. I've finally cut off all contact with them and changed my number. I tried to keep in contact but my mum was ringing me up and shouting abuse at me. I feel like complete fucking crap right now... I knew I should never have got back into contact with them...

It sounded like things were going well with them before. Did somthing happen to trigger this, or did your mother just randomly flip out on you?

[smjjames]

Fucks sake. I gave my parent's every chance. I've finally cut off all contact with them and changed my number. I tried to keep in contact but my mum was ringing me up and shouting abuse at me. I feel like complete fucking crap right now... I knew I should never have got back into contact with them...

It sounded like things were going well with them before. Did somthing happen to trigger this, or did your mother just randomly flip out on you?

Yea, it sounded like your parents were being nice and you said things were going okayish. In fact, you were saying your mom wanted you to come home.