Wait, does this mean I need to revise which pronoun I use to refer to you?
Being called Boy/Man/Sir has felt weird to me forever, but I'm still "he" as far as anyone else is concerned. That said, "dude" or "guy" are great, since there's some flexibility there. And, er... being called "she" is fine too. There were a few weeks some 5 years ago when everyone on the forum referred to me as female (because apparently that's what I sounded like in writing?), and that felt good. I've considered setting my pronoun-of-choice on the She side some day in the indistinct future, but I'm kinda not ready to commit to that at this point. It's complicated, because even if I was publicly identifying as female it'd be as some kind of tomboy, for lack of a better word.
I'm upset that there's no decent neutral pronoun in English yet ("It" is dehumanizing, and "They" is awkward and impersonal). I'm at a point where I feel dumb asking for a specific pronoun, so whatever works. I'm just a person, personing around. As far as I can tell, my gender is *shrug*.
^w^
I'll call you "she" if you want!
I've never really had problems switching pronouns on the fly, (except in my head, but I get words mixed up there all the time) but they/them pronouns still get me tripped up now and again.
Still, I'm pretty sure I've called Vector they/them ever since I learned that they wanted to be called that, so I'd say I'm on the right track.
Actual sad:
Normally my girlfriend sends me a good morning text. I haven't gotten one yesterday or today, and I haven't heard from her since Saturday night.
Disappearing for a while was a normal thing in previous relationships, but with Cado? Call me clingy, but I'm actually a little worried... :/
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