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[Tack]

The best I can get is androgynous stuff.

I'm kinda torn here, 'cos you should have the right to be whoever you want to be, but at the same time you're still pretty young, and the young are outstanding at making decisions they could regret later.
I would personally say stick with the androgynous stuff for now, until you move out, simply because that way it can be a 'smooth transition'.

This advice should be taken with numerous grains of salt of varying size and shape though, 'cos at the end of the day, I'm not trans and I dunno anything.

_{-Actually Tiruin's Problems Snip- ._.}

Don't do it! Kids don't appreciate them as much as you could, and when you're 80 you'll probably still want to have them sitting around the house somewhere.
I gave away the teddy-dog which was so close to my heart as a child, and I've regretted it So Much.
Get her a new one, so that she can foster lasting sentimental connections with It.

... Or maybe I'm a hoarder.

[Orange Wizard]

THREE CHEERS FOR LIBERAL CALIFORNIA

If the bill gets more a a few dozen signatures I'll eat my hat.

[hops]

@Tack: Theoretically, a person tend to be able to figure out their gender by the time they're around 15.

I say theoretically because that's not the case with me, but then again I'm only 16.

Although, yeah, HRT miiiiiight be a bit of a problem because it makes you sterile, which may be a problem if you intend on having biological children.

[Bohandas]

I slept so badly this morning that I punted Totoro some three feet off the foot of the bed :< ~Nightmares~

What, you sleep with a stuffed animal Totoro? That's adorable.~
I've got a stuffed white tiger I've slept with since...I think since I was 7? so for 12 years.

I've got a teddybear and beanbag froggy

[Skyrunner]

I want to play DFO but it has a regional IP ban on Korea, China, and Japan.

[Vector]

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[Descan]

I agree. We should all get back into that circle, and jerk it for all it's worth!

nobutseriouslyitiskindofweird

like, is she even catholic? it's the Philippines so it's likely but still

(also I've never been randomly PM'd just to see how I'm doin' ;----;)

[Vector]

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[Toady One]

Longinus was a ban-dodge account.

[BlitzDungeoneer]

Huh. That's a lot of text that just disappeared.
Is this the legendary event known as nuking?
Also, if you don't mind me asking, who was ban-dodging?

[Descan]

I'm curious too, at least insofar as "Was it someone who's done this a lot/a well known person, or an unknown?" but I'm not sure if Toady feels comfortable saying that kind of thing.

[Toady One]

It's a repeat, but there's no sense in building up a new legend to glorify them.  Might as well chalk it up to Pathos and move on.

[Urist Imiknorris]

Confirmed: It's Pathos.

[Descan]

It's always Pathos but which incarnation?

Yea. Pathos is loterally Brahman.

[Stuebi]

I played both Recettear (Yeah, cute little anime girl having a shop. And a grown man is playing it. SUE ME FLORENCE, CAPITALISM HO) and Sang-Froid: Tales of Werewolves again today.

And every damn time I'm sad because we probably wont see any sequels or even similiar games in the future. I want to play as a Shopkeeper, dammit! And I'm really starved for something like Sang-Froid. The Trapping was sooooo good!


On a more personal matter, spoilered since I dont want to pull anyone down:

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A good friend of mine recently commited suicide after a long period of depression. He was in therapy for years and we we're pretty close. He pulled me out of a depressive part of my life when I was younger, and was funny, nice person all around. I think I dont have to mention that I will miss him a lot.

However, I deal with feelings like this...different than most people I know. I dont like displaying sadness, or being hurt. I'm actually quite emotional, but that's a side reserved only for very close people around me, and even then I hate showing tears or anything like it.

When it comes to death, I usually close down completely. I have maybe a day or two of mourning, remembering and then moving on, on my own. I dont want to make it harder for people around me that are dealing with the same loss, and I have to function in day to day life at my job.

This usually leads to people believing that I'm quite cold. Everyone, including my Girlfriend, want to talk. They think that I need to show some kind of reaction, that I'm secretely just waiting to burst out in emotion and Drama. Initially, I just put them off saying I wasnt ready, hoping they would move on. But it started up again. Nothing that I say gets them off, they dont believe me when I say that I will be over it, that I will deal with it my way and that I dont need that whole "hug it out"-shtick.

Dont get me wrong, I know that they mean good. That it's a sign that they care. But I just...dont want to. What is talking gonna do? Why do they think that I'm keeping this huge, emotional reaction to myself, when there is none? Do they think it's easy, that it's fun having doubts if you're at fault for a buddy going that way? What I need is time, and being left alone with that stuff. So I can sort my thoughts, process it, and then move on.