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[Sirus]

Dude, I thought when you moved out, got a job, turned 21, you began to avoid the high school bullshit and reindeer games. Hoo boy.

Hahahahaha, no. There's no difference in behavioral maturity between adults and children; adults just get more sophisticated at it.

Some of them do, anyway.

Maybe I should quit dating people for a while and focus on whatever else I do.

Dating's overrated anyway.
_{sez the forever alone guy...}

I haven't been intimate in four years. Dating IS overrated, but sex is NOT.

Ehactually...

If you think sex is overrated, you're doing it wrong.

You have to actually be doing it in the first place to be doing it wrong. I think that's what Xant is getting at.

[Xantalos]

Sex may not be overrated, but the issues that go along with it balance it way downward.

[Hanslanda]

The not possessing of something does not lessen it's quality.

[Xantalos]

Not arguing that, but the side packages make it not worth it as a whole.
Then again I may just not understand some psychological aspect of the thing.

[Hanslanda]

The 'side packages' as you so delicately put it, are not actually all that common if you use a little common sense. Like, don't sleep with extremely promiscuous people. Use a condom. Stuff like that.

[Xantalos]

Oh, true in that regard, but I mean more the resulting emotional bonds forming from the act. I've come to distrust such things.

[Hanslanda]

Oh. Uh. That varies from person to person. So... I dunno.

[Vector]

I suspect that for some people, that's the entire point :]

[Xantalos]

Yep. I know myself, though - I get attached too easily.

I suspect that for some people, that's the entire point :]

*insert stupid fears that probably aren't justified here*

[Sirus]

This is all French to me. I sorta know the words and phrases you folks are using, but I have no context to put them in...

[Xantalos]

That's on purpose.

[Sirus]

This is all French to me. I sorta know the words and phrases you folks are using, but I have no context to put them in...

I'll go for sexless innkeeper if you'll do sexless truck driver. I think bartender would be a bit neater than innkeeper, but I already have a bit of practice with that anyways.

Deal. That won't be difficult at all :p

[MaximumZero]

I suspect that for some people, that's the entire point :]

Indeed.

[Hanslanda]

Yep. I know myself, though - I get attached too easily.

I suspect that for some people, that's the entire point :]

*insert stupid fears that probably aren't justified here*

>.> It's okay to be afraid of emotional vulnerability, as long as you understand that it's not necessarily a bad thing. It's bad to allow yourself to be emotionally vulnerable to the wrong people, but it's good to be vulnerable with someone you can trust.

[Xantalos]

Yeah, I'm kinda lacking in that :/