Granted, I am a total nerd, and am not averse to spending my evening in the dark of my room, typing away and watching pixels, but there is never any excuse for "not having anything to do" except for being too lazy to look. It costs next to nothing to grab a charcoal and a sketch pad and take a hike in the woods and try to sketch images of local land, birds, or plant life. You can go fishing with a friend, take a bike ride, rent a book from the library, grab some instruments and have a jam session, go to the Salvation Army or a Garage Sale and get some broken lamps or appliances, and some parts and try to fix them up, look up and try to learn some new recepies and cook them for your family and friends, build a rube-goldberg machine that ends in dumping a cup of molten thermite on a cinder block, film it, and put it on the web... anything.
Or you can convince yourself that there's nothing to do, because you'd rather complain. But that's not going to be terribly fun.
I guess I could say I'm sad today because I have no idea what to do with my facial hair, and I never have, and I'm going to have this damn face-scalp the rest of my life. And I'm invited to a hot, academic achievement dinner tonight, and I want to pick up some smart chicks. I need to be suave dammit.
I had a goatee for a while. Gradually progressed to something smaller. If you want to look Suave, you've got to look like you spend some time on it, but not too much.
For inspiration, check out the web for some
beard databases. I fussed over my beard when I discovered that, try as I might, I couldn't get a full goatee to fill in, so I opted for a cross between a goatee and a soul-patch.
Good luck, and godspeed.