I consider smell of pot smoke to be bad, thus smoking pot turns you into a smelly pothead to me unless you happen to be very thorough while washing yourself and your clothes, which most of the people I'm supposedly stereotyping aren't. I also consider smokers to be smelly, but smelly smokers doesn't sound as good. And drunkards don't (generaly) smell TOO bad, so I call them drunkards instead of smelling alcohol abusers
I realize he has other problems, which several friends + me have tried to help him with, and he seemed pretty much ok thus far.
Thankfuly he stated he didn't actualy enjoy it because it wasn't half of what people say it is and made him not bothered by death metal, something he dislikes. I just find very hard to believe that smoking pot is going to improve anything at all, and so far real life has not provided any clue that using non-medically prescriptioned drugs, legal or not, is actualy useful or productive for anything.
Of course, playing video games or posting this isn't actualy useful or productive for anything either, but hey, it doesn't make me smell like burnt lawnmower refuse. I consider using anything that alters your perception a weakness, but everyone has flaws, and they're part of why I like the jerk
. I'm just worried about his future and see using drugs as a problem,
because its a powerful escape, not the very cause of the problem, and he has a tendency to abuse things that he ends up liking, but thankfuly that wasn't the case with pot.
@Vector: Heh, I can relate to alot of that, but you won't be super happy with your relationships if you expect them to relate to you in every way. Its very unlikely you'll find someone that understand you that deeply, but if its your thing, you're probably happier that way then risking a relationship with someone that only partly understands you.
And there's aways the chance you'll actualy find someone that is almost a rule 63'd copy of yourself, and you might end up not liking it. I wouldn't date myself, I'm a jerk