I'm done with these fucking dogs. I give up. I used to think I was a dog person, that I "spoke the language". Clearly not the case with these little shits.
Completely fucking uncontrollable,
extreme hyperactivation (aggressive) upon seeing
any other dog-like creature on the street, the youngest has some serious OCD and the eldest is clinically fucking neurotic and barks at everything.
No amount of redirection over the past three years has had any effect on this behavior, and the stress of pulling double-time due to my girlfriend -their owner- giving zero shits and making no move to change this (or to change the youngest's state of not-having-had-his-second-vaccination-shots, which he's
three years late for). Hell, it still doesn't really click for her that the eldest has serious antisocial behavior issues, since he "was perfectly socialized" when he was younger, according to her.
Her solution is to just "avoid possible situations". Well, "possible situations" means "can remotely detect a possible dog", which when you're walking your dog outside in an urban environment is remarkably difficult to avoid. And since I'm the one walking them most of the time, guess who has to deal with it and take the "bad owner blame" from everyone for how little control can be exerted over them? Yeah. Me.
And fuck taking them to the vet or trying to find some external help for the problem, oh no... That's
embarrassing. Wouldn't want anything
embarrassing to trigger her
social anxiety which she definitely has and I definitely can't appreciate despite the fact that of the two of us,
I'm the only one with that diagnosis.
I give up. I'm so on-edge trying to correct their behavior that I've ended up correcting behavior that was correct to begin with, and made things worse (if they even react at all, that is). And then there's the new-age studies saying that any form of negative reinforcement is to be completely avoided, which makes zero sense to me and shows that I'm clearly not as fluent in dog-talk as I used to think. So fuck it, I'm not trying anymore. I don't have the energy for this shit.
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