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Author Topic: Things that made you sad today thread.  (Read 9702409 times)

BlackHeartKabal

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102840 on: March 09, 2016, 10:06:51 pm »

The world really is rotten, isn't it? [+earlier ruminations on being what they say you are]
Nah, it isn't. These things happen.

If I'm expected to play the villain to everyone, should I?
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Why do you have so much faith in me, even knowing about what I did before?
My self criticism and thoughts on myself aren't just doubt, some of it is true. I'm chasing forgiveness, among many other things I need. I've been chasing many things that I probably won't find. I don't know what I want, and I don't know much of what I need, but I'm still going because I don't have time to stop for anything else. So many other problems too. I have no idea what to do, and it's been the same.

Are you really trying to help me for no other reason but kindness? There's no other reason?
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Tiruin

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102841 on: March 09, 2016, 10:11:36 pm »

Are you really trying to help me for no other reason but kindness? There's no other reason?
Experience :P (And kindness, and other stuff that I forgot the word for)
Sometimes you think that's all you are, and yeah--it's true. Applicable in the past situation. But it's something I'm trying to draw and illustrate (since I'm also teaching via peer-teaching others here) in how one's timeline and experiences are likely linear(ish). So it follows that kind of thinking. Consecutive order of exposure and experience.

Why do you have so much faith in me, even knowing about what I did before?
I study people. :P I try my best to understand that stuff.
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BlackHeartKabal

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102842 on: March 09, 2016, 10:16:13 pm »

What's convinced you that I'm not just a lost cause?
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Orange Wizard

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102843 on: March 09, 2016, 11:07:31 pm »

What's convinced you that I'm not just a lost cause?
Okay m80, imma give it to you straight.

You're a person. Or you should be, might be an alien or something, idk.

Anyway, that person bit is important. Because guess what? Everyone's a person. And people screw up. Everybody makes mistakes, does shitty things, or whatever. Obviously some people are shittier than others, but trying counts for a lot.

You're not perfect, you're never going to be perfect, but if you're trying to improve things then you're doing a good job.

On the other hand, wallowing in self-pity is not a good job. Sitting around going, "woe is me" doesn't help anyone, least of all you.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102844 on: March 09, 2016, 11:22:16 pm »

If anything, self-pity might make it worse. Some things I wish I've started doing include avoiding self-deprecation. Hold your head up, rather than look at the floor all the time. Try and be happy.

It sounds stupid. It is stupid. It helped. Try smiling. Or bite down on a pencil, if you'd rather not force a smile. It works. I don't know why, but it does. Doesn't help my resting bitch face any, mind you.

Do something productive. Draw, or write, or think up stories. Share 'em. We've got threads for all of that. And being able to say "I made that" can help. Even if it isn't amazing, it's still something you've done.

Everybody's shit in their own way. Everybody has the capacity to change this. And some do. It may require help from others, or you may do it on your own, but you can do it.
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BlackHeartKabal

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102845 on: March 09, 2016, 11:28:26 pm »

Some people just don't change. Everything goes back to what it was before with them. I know people like that. And I don't know if I'm one of those people, even though I try not to be. You make points I've seen many times before, so I'll try again.

I don't think there's much more to say that's necessary to say. Night.
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TheBiggerFish

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102846 on: March 09, 2016, 11:52:00 pm »

*...Hugs everybody, especially flabort, Kot, BHK, TMS.*

My own sad:This retreat sucks.  Don't fit in the bed, no wifi, can't use phones almost ever, day runs until 11...And there's a full day of this utter, utter....[EXPLETIVE DELETED] coming up tomorrow.
« Last Edit: March 09, 2016, 11:53:42 pm by TheBiggerFish »
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102847 on: March 10, 2016, 12:18:32 am »

oh ho! a resurgence of jealous feeling appears

except this time i know exactly what the right thing to do about it is

... the last advice i got on this subject remains as insightful and valuable as ever, so, thanks for that, vec - continues to be a lifesaver
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102848 on: March 10, 2016, 01:39:55 am »

I got a taste of how amazing living in town would be today and it makes me sad that I'm not living in town.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102849 on: March 10, 2016, 02:43:30 am »

I'm sorry to hear that, Flabort. I hope you're holding up okay. :(



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KingofstarrySkies

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102850 on: March 10, 2016, 03:42:52 am »

I can't say too much right now.

But my little brother has passed on.

Still don't know whether it was cancer or something else.

But I think these two words sum it up best: "Death Sucks".
I'm sorry for your loss, Flabort... :c
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102851 on: March 10, 2016, 05:01:56 am »

Ugh, I hate birthdays.
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102852 on: March 10, 2016, 05:05:15 am »

I need an essay done by tomorrow. Unfortunately, there's a power outage, and it's currently 2 AM.

welp

shit

guess I get an extension and a C

dammit

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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102853 on: March 10, 2016, 06:26:17 am »

*applies more hugs...*
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Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« Reply #102854 on: March 10, 2016, 09:09:24 am »

Jedi Academy refuses to work even though it's a bloody GoG copy. Fack.
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