Would you be the one making a scene? If you've cut ties (I can't remember all the details of what happened from that thread, but that was the impression I got) and don't plan on being wierd about it, chill, if she wants to make a scene, tell her to sod off and that you have no interest in creating drama and would appreciate it if she did the same.
@miauw
As has been said before, you're alive, you'll get over it, and you'll probably go trough it again, and again, and again, and eventually, it'll work out and end up horrible or amazing, it's a dice roll and the only thing you can do is grit your teeth and soldier on, maybe making yourself the best you can be so the dice are somewhat fixed in your favour, but it'll almost never be a sure thing. Which I guess is both the great and awful thing about life.
Like say, my whole deal that fucked my last year up horribly. I was left thinking I'd never find someone as amazing as her, or someone who got the messed up ball of whatever that I am. Now, six months later, I actually met someone who comes dangerously close to being her, someone, who once again, I've been brushing past for years without noticing them, sharing friends and events. And as it turns out, things are way less than ideal (like say, she ended a 4 year relationship less than a week ago) for any romantic attempts but I'm really not going to rush into any of that anyways.
So I guess it's more terrifying that it'll be a repeat than a sad or something, I'm not really sure anymore, I've been barely sleeping for the past few weeks and it's taken its toll on my nerves :V
Also, unrelated sads, a boy of 14 years killed himself not two weeks ago because he was abused horribly by his teachers, and this has gone on unnoticed for several years. As it turns out, he was not the only one to suffer this. Hopefully those fuckers get jailed for life, but I kinda doubt it'll happen any time soon.
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