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[Spehss _]

How many days in a row now have I posted in this thread complaining that I stayed up until at least 2 am on the internet? Because I'm doing it again.

I need to stop doing this. Probably need to change a  lot of things with my life, while I'm complaining about it.

[TheBiggerFish]

Oof.
Speaking as someone who's an hour later than you, I offer my condolences on the loss of your morning...

[Orange Wizard]

I dunno, some people just feel more comfortable getting up later and going to bed later. Like me.

[TheBiggerFish]

I dunno, some people just feel more comfortable getting up later and going to bed later. Like me.

I prefer this but my life dictates otherwise.

[IcyTea31]

Doesn't work when one has school or work to go to. I can sleep in today, since it's the holidays, but I need to get my sleep schedule sorted out sooner rather than later.

[TheBiggerFish]

Doesn't work when one has school or work to go to. I can sleep in today, since it's the holidays, but I need to get my sleep schedule sorted out sooner rather than later.

Exactly my problem.

[miauw62]

How many days in a row now have I posted in this thread complaining that I stayed up until at least 2 am on the internet? Because I'm doing it again.

I need to stop doing this. Probably need to change a  lot of things with my life, while I'm complaining about it.

Bluh, I've been staying awake until 2am reading stuff on the internet too

(well, more like until my phone battery runs out...)

[TheBiggerFish]

Was up till like 5.
It's now 10 AM.
How am I awake?

[hops]

Have I mentioned how much I dislike how I look? Of course, of course, I'm "attractive" and "above average" and "lucky" and all that nonsense. It's frustrating that when I ask people about it they tell me that I look fine. Sure, they are sincere, and they do think I look fine, but it's all psychological. They would see me as attractive when they stop to analyze me but subconsciously they'll know that I am not that attractive. But because they aren't interested in this sort of things they don't actually grasp what is wrong with my appearance so all they can manage is a noncommittal "you look fine".

It's especially irritating that despite me studying aesthetics, the finer points of improving my appearance eludes me. Sure, getting in shape and having my eyebrows done are straightforward, but then there's the issue with my hair and face and makeups. I can keep my hair healthy and have it silkier than a fucking worm's ass, but because I don't have a good hairstyle all of that is pointless, and when I go to get a haircut they won't advise me. I mean, if I knew what the fuck I wanted with my hair, then I wouldn't have gone to a goddamn hairstylist won't I? And the makeups tutorials are either made by white girls or people who have no idea what the fuck they're doing, while the androgyny makeup tutorials that don't suck are as accessible as the Voynich Manuscript.

tl;dr I wish the ways to look good wasn't so goddamn obtuse when you aren't a celebrity with the natural looks already. Why isn't there a school for this sort of things. Like, an actual school instead of health & beauty institutions ran by middle-aged women who, while they don't look so bad, are mediocre at best.

And no, I'm not nuking this post because it might offend someone.

[Shadowlord]

I don't know but I would expect different hairstyles to be attractive to different people. I know that's how it is for hair color anyways.

The people you're asking are probably afraid they'll offend you for no good reason (after all, it's subjective).

[Tiruin]

Some specifics there are confusing (...white girls?), but there are schools teaching those things along body aesthetics out there. :O People may also be saying you look fine because, overall, you really do look fine (and may not catch on a specific you were asking about other than 'How do you think I look?')

[Shook]

Yeah, beauty is both subjective and cultural (i personally find it unattractive when people make too much of a fuzz about how they look, so there's a spanner in the works for ya :v), and all attempts at making a universally attractive face has been met with a "yeah s/he's reasonably pretty" at best, which is a FAR CRY from everyone wanting to bag you. But, given that vanity is an almost alien concept to me (my looks are based on what takes the least effort from me), i cannot offer anything actually useful. Good luck figuring it out, i guess?

[TheBiggerFish]

Yeah, beauty is both subjective and cultural (i personally find it unattractive when people make too much of a fuzz about how they look, so there's a spanner in the works for ya :v), and all attempts at making a universally attractive face has been met with a "yeah s/he's reasonably pretty" at best, which is a FAR CRY from everyone wanting to bag you. But, given that vanity is an almost alien concept to me (my looks are based on what takes the least effort from me), i cannot offer anything actually useful. Good luck figuring it out, i guess?

Pretty much the same...

[miauw62]

It's especially irritating that despite me studying aesthetics, the finer points of improving my appearance eludes me. Sure, getting in shape and having my eyebrows done are straightforward, but then there's the issue with my hair and face and makeups. I can keep my hair healthy and have it silkier than a fucking worm's ass, but because I don't have a good hairstyle all of that is pointless, and when I go to get a haircut they won't advise me. I mean, if I knew what the fuck I wanted with my hair, then I wouldn't have gone to a goddamn hairstylist won't I?

i can relate to this
i want to do something with my hair but idk what and im too nervous to ask anybody or actually try, so my hair looks terrible 90% of the time. and when i post pictures where it somehow doesn't nobody says anything v:

And no, I'm not nuking this post because it might offend someone. Go fuck yourself, you oversensitive dipshit. I'm pissed off at everything and you can't tell me how I ought to act.

this is rude and unneeded, though. almost makes me want to write a dumb rant on how lucky you are to actually have an so while i'm trying so hard but nothing is working

[TheBiggerFish]

... Yeah, I don't think anyone here is going to be offended about you being annoyed at your looks...