I'd more equate it to having a camel put to breaking point with straw. And one more piece gently wafts down...
Then a nuclear bomb lands on it's face, fails to go off right away and slams it into the ground, THEN blows up.
Give Janet a hug for me. I'd give her one myself, but, y'know, internet and distance and all.
Send her a hug from me too--and many other people here, please.
Also I'd love to tell her the nice things some of you guys say, but a conditional of me being allowed to do anything here is I don't tell her anything about it.
Maybe keep it all as a secret(?) for yourself to support and keep positive? :O
Better yet--dwell on the nice things and create nice things from yourself to help her when she gets down!
It's a ton less 'from this place' when you draw insight from it!
Man, forum drama makes Facebook drama look mature.
It's not actually forum drama.
To put the situation in point--it's how association and cognition works in part. Treasure a person, befriend one--then something bad happens to them: You get hurt in turn because of this connection :O Emotional connections power bonds.
It'll continue like this because of emotional connections, but its like a tree--you will always keep growing despite the thoughts at the moment. Always being open for connections--and bettering the ones you've got at the moment.
It's less 'drama for the sake of drama', and more 'protocol in facing attitude'. I don't know what really happened during that time, but things can and will get better in time--if such is being aimed for.
To put it into more detail: I feel really guilty having done nothing to PM LSP about the quirks in his attitude
(despite being totally busy at that time and not even sure about the stuffs popping up). The feeling that I could've done something still lingers with me here. But this is just me making one post about this ._.
So in a happy way--I'm being more proactive.
Happy: We're clearing out the fallen trees in our backyard \o/ (though still awaiting coordination with our local Natural Resources department to actually move the tree resting on our house in question). Hooray helpful neighbors in...getting up a ladder and cutting each individual branch to lessen any harm the dead tree can do!