I've been extremely cautious, so worry not. I've known her for 8.5 years, and the engagement will be long-ish, and I've asked all the questions I can think of (especially the uncomfortable ones).
Oh that's awesome, then. From the posts on the forum, this all seemed very sudden.
The relationship portion could be considered sudden. But when you go from essentially "best friend" to "romantic partner," I feel we have an excuse
No one knows me better than her, and I know her extremely well. All my remaining worries are related to potential issues living together, and these last few days have systematically obliterated those. Not to mention I'd be willing to give my all to solve any problems that may arise, and she's made it quite clear she'd want to work through any troubles as well.
It's just that, you're new to the relationship part, which, and I know you don't think it is, but it IS a very significant change from friend. There are different expectations. Things could happen. This is new.
Also, I'm going to note to Doctus the chance of Divorce doubles if you have doubts before marriage, any doubts, even semmingly insignificant ones,
and you do not voice them. Seriously, doubles. Statistics.
100% more likely you'll divorce. That goes for kaiyjuu too. If you have doubts, for the love of god talk about them, NOW. Or even with a marriage counseler, seriously. Anyone.
Captain Cynic to the Rescue! (You know what they say about Cynics? Somone who sees the world as it is, not as it ought to be. Actually, that's going in my sig. The devil's Dictionary, I love that.)