Got a letter from m'boy.
FWEEEEEE
Haven't read it yet, just gonna keep it and look at it for a while :3
*assumes girly, legs folded, sleepover position* Oooo, a real letter? Is it a hand written one? What's it say what's it say?
*ditto*
I suppose I should join in too! :3
It's a real letter, but it isn't handwritten, it's typed (boo) and kind of surprisingly short. It's super-sweet, though. It was a letter that was warmly written and made me feel like he was there with me. We took a walk to see the super-moon together, so he talked about how he was looking at the solar eclipse and wished I was there to share that.
See, he also had a conference last week and then he had to move, so it seems like he wrote the letter just the moment he could. It had some funny parts, too, and he signed it "fondest wishes" (squee~ That's pretty good!).
The only thing is that he hasn't seemed to quite realize that snail mail isn't like emails. You put a lot of effort into a letter because it's going to take so long to get there, and you write it by hand because it has to communicate your presence across a good deal of time and space. And more than that, it has to last the other person a while. You put every ounce of you into it that you can. What you saw, how you feel, what you hope for. It's harder to ask questions, so you have to volunteer more information... that's the essence of a "love letter."
So what I'm saying is, he shoulda written more.
But I think that's something that our generation has a really hard time understanding. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm only educated in the old way because I have a particularly old-fashioned and artistic mother; I make sure I always have stationery to write letters, while I've met only one other person my age who did that (and she, similarly, learned the habit matrilinearly). He can definitely learn something as simple as this, and I actually have faith that he will.
And if he doesn't, that'll probably be fine. I'm still crazy about him, and it was a really, really endearing piece of writing.
(On that note, I'm better and my room is nearly 100% clean, so after checking in tomorrow morning and sending off the last couple PMs I'm going to wipe my password from this computer [not my main one, don't worry] and be gone again for quite a while. However, I'll probably drop by every once in a while for updates on how things are going.
I'll really miss you guys, and I'll be thinking of you. No need for massive farewells, though. I'll be back to say stupid stuff before you know it)