I am certain the oh-so-sensitive "go be fat/unattractive someplace else" is certainly not gender specific. Speaking as a guy who alternates not-giving-a-shit about appearances/looks like a hippie bum and alternately dressing up/looking nice, it's amazing how much bullshit you can get away with in the world just by appearing attractive. Heck, movie and pop-stars.
Denigrating slurs such as whore or slut are a whole other can of worms, as among males our counterpart "man-whore" is generally regarded as a herp-derp positive alpha male trait, highfives and brofists all around, naturally. And then some of our insults for each other are 'feminizing' terms like bitch.
As for the race thing, it is not a problem if you don't ooze "I'm fascinated by X-race and I have yellow/jungle/whatever fever" at every pore. Although I'm darkly amused by my female asian friends who exasperatedly tell guys who are into anime and have yellow fever to fuck off. There are some things better left unspoken.
Yeah, I wouldn't know about the first thing because... well, basically, I have so little ability to perform female beauty that I've just given up and dress as I like. On the other hand, I can usually get people to treat me like a person, which is nice.
However, from everything I've heard, the onus is much stronger on chicks to be thin--because they're already meat, as opposed to dudes, who are in the not-meat category and thus can get slammed with virility penalities, rather than the almost-automatic "why don't you look fuckable?" penalty laid upon womenfolk. So... maybe worse, maybe not. All I know is that fat women tend to earn a lot less money than fat men, and that's it. The social penalties may indeed be worse on the other side of the fence.
The anime thing sounds like one of the world's worst combos of being female and a person of color, because, seriously... just ew. I feel so grateful for not having to go through that. I've only had to deal with one drooly guy, and that was bad enough.
Racially specific dating makes no sense, especially if they are "into the animes and everything".
I wanna date someone from Eastern or Central Europe someday, because that seems like an interesting culture.
You could also say that it's because I'm way into the math culture and everything, and that's the entire reason why, and I just wanna drool over teh mathmeats.
On the other hand, 2/2 guys I attempted to date are Eastern European (Ukrainian and a descendant of Russian Jews), and I met 'em before I ever was interested in mathematics. So maybe it's just personal taste.
Is it just a fanatical obsession to have anything to do with Oriental stuff, or am I the one that's confused here?
I believe the assumption is that the women will be just as flat-chested, thin, and servile. Anime does not have a very good view of women, especially in terms of its strong habit of gender-role-entrapment, etc. There are lots of dudes online who bemoan the feminist movement and its creation of women who are harder to catch for sammich-creating purposes.
As such (so far as I know), the assumption is that an Asian woman will fulfill their dreams of a woman who always looks fuckable, has no "mannish" feelings that can't be readily deflated, and will do whatever they tell them to, often enduring abuse because in anime abuse = love.
It is absolutely disgusting.
Why can't we date people because we love them?
Know i am at least.
The law and common sense say no in my case.
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