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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #30 on: September 14, 2009, 02:26:02 pm »

Question to the OP: do you have friends?  There's nothing intrinsically wrong with being a loner by choice or necessity, but when people ask how to meet a girl, they're usually trying to run before they can walk.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #31 on: September 14, 2009, 02:49:13 pm »

Question to the OP: do you have friends?  There's nothing intrinsically wrong with being a loner by choice or necessity, but when people ask how to meet a girl, they're usually trying to run before they can walk.


Slow down you crazy child
You're so ambitious for a juvenile
But then if you're so smart tell me why
Are you still so afraid?
Where's the fire, what's the hurry about?
You better cool it off before you burn it out
You got so much to do and only
So many hours in a day
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #32 on: September 14, 2009, 02:56:43 pm »

First off, don't overanalyze.. not saying that you are, but it's normal for people your age to worry about things like personality, likes, dislikes, looks, whatever. The other answers to this thread proves it :P It doesn't really matter, I've had a few girlfriends. Most don't have the same taste in things as me, and it doesn't matter. Liking the same things is good for friendship and conversation. It helps in "picking up" girls, but matters less and less as time passes.

The cliche "Be Yourself" advice works. If you're being yourself, you'll find someone who likes you for who you are. If you have to act like someone else for them to like you, you'll have to act for as long as you're with them. Acting like an arrogant bastard when you're not really an arrogant bastard deep down inside will backfire.

But if you want advice: Look confident. People are wired to like confidence. There are those who like shyness, but it's rare. It doesn't mean you have to act like an arrogant jerk.. just talk confidently. Don't be hesitant, don't worry about looking stupid, stuff like that. It's hard, but hey, you have to start some time.

Emotions.. well, that's a normal thing at that age. I don't know why, you're just likely to get really emo about stuff. Just.. deal with it, I suppose.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #33 on: September 14, 2009, 02:58:09 pm »

Get up/
Everybodys gonna move their feet/
Get down/
Everybodys gonna leave their seat/

Twelve oclock, I gotta rock/
Theres a truck ahead, lights starin at my eyes/
Oh my god, no time to turn/
I got to laugh cause I know Im gonna die/
Why/
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #34 on: September 14, 2009, 04:32:59 pm »

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Being an arrogant dick and acting like you're treating her by talking to her is not going to help with a real woman

actually, it does tend to work, you know
At least with younger women/girls. Advice: girls love a popular, rich, good-looking, arrogant bastard. Emphasis on rich.


Based on experience.

I'm communist, so....... :-[
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #35 on: September 14, 2009, 04:36:02 pm »

just go for, good-looking, arrogant bastard then.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #36 on: September 14, 2009, 04:36:09 pm »

Question to the OP: do you have friends?  There's nothing intrinsically wrong with being a loner by choice or necessity, but when people ask how to meet a girl, they're usually trying to run before they can walk.


Well yes I indeed do have friends, I can't say their any good but yes. Most of the people I know tend to be asshats.But then again you know how being an asshat is seeing as you troll and you most likey go on facepunch.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #37 on: September 14, 2009, 04:39:09 pm »

My first instinct is to misinform you to scar you and stop you from breeding.
 I won't, so that's my contribution to this thread.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #38 on: September 14, 2009, 04:43:20 pm »



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An example would be my many OCDs such as symmetry, another one would be that fact I support certain things most of you would find shocking.

Protip: OCD is hardly a unique and special disorder. And if people didn't support ideas that some people would find shocking, then these ideas would hardly enter the public consciousness at all. Neither of these make you any less than sane. Best advice I can give you regarding this is don't bring it up if you don't have to; being one of those vocal morons who just has to mention they have OCD and 'outrageous' viewpoints whenever it seems even vaguely appropriate isn't going to win you any friends. Not that I'm saying you are, but it always helps to try and avoid that kind of behaviour.

*Dropping Date related Bombshell that may get myself arrested*

Well Seeing that pointing out the dull edges on a knife doesn't work on the internet I'll give your a more "red" example.

I do support the actions on 9/1/1

 Capitalists died
 The Us showed more atention to 3000 peole compared to the lot in africa and everybody else realized that the've been looking up to assholes
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #39 on: September 14, 2009, 04:44:33 pm »

My first instinct is to misinform you to scar you and stop you from breeding.
 I won't, so that's my contribution to this thread.


I thank you for informing me but then again you came from facepunch didn't you?
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #40 on: September 14, 2009, 04:44:48 pm »

Question to the OP: do you have friends?  There's nothing intrinsically wrong with being a loner by choice or necessity, but when people ask how to meet a girl, they're usually trying to run before they can walk.


Well yes I indeed do have friends, I can't say their any good but yes. Most of the people I know tend to be asshats.But then again you know how being an asshat is seeing as you troll and you most likey go on facepunch.

I just lost any and all respect for you.

Do. Not. Respond. To. Actual. Help. With. Insults.

Asking if you have friends or not, then explicitly stating that there's nothing wrong with being a loner is fine. It is a legitimate question, asked in a manner meaning neither to provoke nor anger. And you responded the way you did.

Courtesy. Common Courtesy. What I'm trying to say is shut up and learn some manners before coming back here. And then think before you post. We are trying to help you and if you respond like this I really don't see why we should.

Oh, hey, you just posted a reply saying you support 9/11. Enjoy being banned.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #41 on: September 14, 2009, 04:46:09 pm »



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An example would be my many OCDs such as symmetry, another one would be that fact I support certain things most of you would find shocking.

Protip: OCD is hardly a unique and special disorder. And if people didn't support ideas that some people would find shocking, then these ideas would hardly enter the public consciousness at all. Neither of these make you any less than sane. Best advice I can give you regarding this is don't bring it up if you don't have to; being one of those vocal morons who just has to mention they have OCD and 'outrageous' viewpoints whenever it seems even vaguely appropriate isn't going to win you any friends. Not that I'm saying you are, but it always helps to try and avoid that kind of behaviour.

*Dropping Date related Bombshell that may get myself arrested*

Well Seeing that pointing out the dull edges on a knife doesn't work on the internet I'll give your a more "red" example.

I do support the actions on 9/1/1

 Capitalists died
 The Us showed more atention to 3000 peole compared to the lot in africa and everybody else realized that the've been looking up to assholes


What is 9/1/1?

You... support the emergency help line?

Anyway, like Jackrabbit says, you're gone.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #42 on: September 14, 2009, 04:46:43 pm »

Question to the OP: do you have friends?  There's nothing intrinsically wrong with being a loner by choice or necessity, but when people ask how to meet a girl, they're usually trying to run before they can walk.


Well yes I indeed do have friends, I can't say their any good but yes. Most of the people I know tend to be asshats.But then again you know how being an asshat is seeing as you troll and you most likey go on facepunch.

I just lost any and all respect for you.

Do. Not. Respond. To. Actual. Help. With. Insults.

Asking if you have friends or not, then explicitly stating that there's nothing wrong with being a loner is fine. It is a legitimate question, asked in a manner meaning neither to provoke nor anger. And you responded the way you did.

Courtesy. Common Courtesy. What I'm trying to say is shut up and learn some manners before coming back here. And then think before you post. We are trying to help you and if you respond like this I really don't see why we should.

Oh, hey, you just posted a reply saying you support 9/11. Enjoy being banned.

Could I get a perma?
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #43 on: September 14, 2009, 04:47:25 pm »

Frankly?

You'd probably deserve it.
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Re: I need Love advice
« Reply #44 on: September 14, 2009, 04:48:18 pm »

Frankly?

You'd probably deserve it.

Could I get  some last words for the devs?
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