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Author Topic: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?  (Read 14258 times)

IndonesiaWarMinister

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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #120 on: July 31, 2009, 06:13:08 am »

You never ask 4chan for advice.

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I have.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #121 on: July 31, 2009, 06:18:03 am »

I dunno, if your girlfriend happens to be a certain kind of goth... she may already be wearing one.  It is creepy, but I suppose we don't really care what you do behind closed doors.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #122 on: July 31, 2009, 06:20:20 am »

You never ask 4chan for advice.

NEVER.

I have.
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OP could even ask /H/ or maybe better, /d/ for advice, /d/ have the higher change of a more serious answer.

you could also pretend to be a girl and ask /u/

Or maybe fashion, or whatever it's called now adays.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #123 on: July 31, 2009, 06:21:57 am »

Nah.


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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #124 on: July 31, 2009, 06:35:39 am »

It just goes to show that I have little... or no sanity. I read this thread, and my mind was not fucked once.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #125 on: July 31, 2009, 06:36:25 am »

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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #126 on: July 31, 2009, 06:53:59 am »

The forum, over the last few days, seems to be having spasms. Huh.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #127 on: July 31, 2009, 07:11:29 am »

This thread is awesome.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #128 on: July 31, 2009, 10:28:00 am »

Armok, the drawings are not metaphors. they are drawings.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #129 on: July 31, 2009, 12:53:10 pm »

This thread has fallen...
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #130 on: July 31, 2009, 12:55:33 pm »

Yeah... It kinda died I guess. I still don't get how collars are creepy though.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #131 on: July 31, 2009, 02:04:49 pm »

Yeah... It kinda died I guess. I still don't get how collars are creepy though.
I suppose people think of bdsm collars as opposed to something more innocent. Hmm...
 
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 The first one depresses me, while the second one... I'm neutral to. Doesn't creep me out, doesn't arouse me. I suppose it is just the idea of being involved with bdsm things that creeps people out. Come now, even in my horrible, horrible search for relevant images for this the collar was the least threatening thing. It's when the chains, gags, bounds and other crap gets involved that things get... weird.

 And Sofia, it appears you have a similar curse to me. We cannot post in a topic without horribly derailing it.
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #132 on: July 31, 2009, 02:42:30 pm »

This wouldn't by chance be the same girl that plays the role of Abby on NCIS is it?



It's only really creepy if a majority of people aren't using it in a positive way. It's cognitive dissonance(?) That causes us to think certain ways about certain things. If you live in a family of mostly girls, you'd be influenced slightly or majorly depending on your base attributes, such as submissiveness.

So this girl might like the collar with or without the bell. If it's purely fashion then it's quite innocent. As long as there's no leash, well...
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #133 on: August 01, 2009, 12:05:37 am »

Skimming the thread, I'm surprised the word 'choker' has only come up once. It seems like a reasonably normal piece of jewelry to me, and I'm usually fairly conservative about such things. (Piercings, tattoos, etc. make me cringe at the mere thought. Even earrings, much less the exotic places that studs seem to show up in almost at random.)

I believe the reaction to this thread is pretty well proof that it's rather subjective. Seems like a judgement call to be made at the time, not filed away as something always acceptable or always unacceptable in 'polite society'.

It may also be a bit semantical, as the word 'collar' seems to have different connotations than 'choker' (apart from the reference to strangulation and the potential 'choke 'er? I don't even know 'er!' pun everyone just groaned over).
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Re: Is it creepy to ask a girl to wear a collar?
« Reply #134 on: August 01, 2009, 01:04:23 am »

I'm definitely not the best person for an opinion on this, but I think it all comes down to why you want it and how those involved feel about it. A collar is a lot better than a tattoo though. (Note that the link doesn't really have anything to do with the subject)
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