The main Bay12 colony (also called bottleneck) is a very nice place that could use more military, and generally more inhabitants, but the trip there and living there is rough due to uberfoxes. On the other hand, there are crack hunters at the village keeping it safe (usually), and you won't have to worry about the basic necessities, and you won't meet the problems of overpopulation, annoying neighbors, thieves (mostly) and stuff. Once you are there, it is easier than living near the start. You might want to grind a bit before going down. You may want to consult the map at the first post. Bottleneck's marked with a red circle. If this is a little hardcore for you, go at the place marked with the blue circle. The yellow circle is a stepover house and should contain food and dreams.
If you decide to make the trip down to us, remember following:
1. Always be at the third speed, running. Sprint when it's necessary. If there are foxes after you, don't attempt to fight them, run, and try to have a solid object (cliff, rock, tree, river) between them and you, it messes up their pathfinding.
2. Set up your hearth fire as soon as you arrive.
3. There's a communal stockpile. Take what you need.
4. Ask the others, they will give you advice.
5. Do not cut down trees inside the village. In fact, you might want to not build any cabin at all, as they are bloody expensive.