It's problematic to say what Christian virtues are and then quote friggin'
Exodus as proof. Seriously. The tone of the New Testament (or at least a lot of it) is in stark contrast to that of the old, and the Bible is complicated enough and represents enough periods in the religion's history that you could excise the context from ANY quote to prove anything about it.
I mean, the Old Testament also tells you not to eat shellfish, but that's hardly a Christian thing either. Things changed.
Here, have some more relevant quotes.
8Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. 9Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 10For,
"Whoever would love life
and see good days
must keep his tongue from evil
and his lips from deceitful speech.
11He must turn from evil and do good;
he must seek peace and pursue it.
9Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they will be called sons of God.
52"Put your sword back in its place," Jesus said to him, "for all who draw the sword will die by the sword.
43"You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor[a] and hate your enemy.' 44But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?
Just food for thought, really. There are a lot of messages in the Bible, some representative of different ideological periods than others, and some seemingly (or actually) self-contradictory. But tolerance is certainly one of them.