I wouldn't be able to understand how you think you're alone in the universe. Everything is so perfect, there's a reason for everything and there are so many "coincidences", how's that? How did everything start?
I understand religion has been transformed in a non-sense thing these days, with people making religions to earn money or to have fun.
In my opinion religion should be the way to find the truth about all those questions. In this point of view, an atheist would be religious too.
The irony is, I would guess at least 50% of atheists do NOT think we are alone. Knowing that life occurs via naturally occuring phenomena rather than through magical phenomena means the probability of other intelligent life existing is close to 1. Even with conservative estimates, there should be multiple intelligent lifeforms in the Milky Way alone. Space is big... So big we do not, and cannot understand how incredibly big. Here is a video which shows a test of a game engine which generates a realistically scaled and realistically populated galaxy which is essentially a copy of the Milky Way:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P0-lsyo28SU Watch it in HD, and remember... Each little tiny square represents a star system. It will help in the understanding of the sheer massiveness of space. And that is just one galaxy. There are estimated to be more galaxies than there are stars in that simulation.
Perfection is in the eye of the beholder. It may be good for us, but for lifeforms which evolved elsewhere, not so much.
As far as coincidences go, I think SciAm did a great article on it a few months ago, let me see if I can find it... Ah, here it is.
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=why-our-brains-do-not-intuitively-grasp-probabilitiesI think the main reason Chrstianity is on a decline currently is because the way it is gone about is completely anti-intellectual. It is currently all about 'feeling' the presence of god, 'experiencing' his might, ect. Anyone who asks "why" ends up with no answers, since that is not what the church is focusing on. It is not only the church, however. For the past few decades culture has been in the anti-intellectual swing of the ever repeating metronome (pretty much ever since we threatened to destroy the world with science during the cold war via nuclear). I am no expert on the matter, but it would appear we are beginning to see the start of a shift back to intellectualism. More and more churches are accepting evolution and other (relatively basic) scientific principles as fact, rather than trying to oppose science. I would expect to see less anti-religion sentiment from atheists when this occurs on a more widespread basis. We really do not care whether or not anyone thinks a god/godess/gods guided evolution or guided the Big Bang into occuring. It is when the religious try to teach false information (creationism mostly) in schools, thus denying children a quality education, that we really have problems with them.
Well, thats my 2 cents worth on the original post... Haven't had the time to read through the whole topic yet.