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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #15 on: February 23, 2009, 07:35:53 am »

They are just effing words, if you get offended by them maybe you should get the fuck off our planet, is what I say to politicle correctness.  If I want to refer to some race or "ethnicity" I'l use any damn word I want too and if you take offense,then get the bloody hell away from me.

Well then, be prepared for the social ostracism that ensues when you deliberately offend people of good taste.  It's not like there's any sort of laws telling you what to say.  It only means you've shown yourself to be a jerk.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #16 on: February 23, 2009, 07:36:44 am »

They are just effing words, if you get offended by them maybe you should get the fuck off our planet, is what I say to politicle correctness.  If I want to refer to some race or "ethnicity" I'l use any damn word I want too and if you take offense,then get the bloody hell away from me.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #17 on: February 23, 2009, 09:45:25 am »

Well, this seems to be moving along in a mature and clearheaded manner.  Might end up having to point this thread out to Toady just to prove how well we can keep our composure when dealing with sensitive matters.


Anyways...

It makes me think you believe the fights for black rights were all fought by white people, and the fights for women's rights were fought by men. Is this accurate, or do you want to rephrase your statement?

Frankly, if it IS true that most claims these days are made by others, then I think "Thank goitre!". It means we've come to a time when the majority are willing to make a stand for the minority (probably a reverse of what it was like when the discrimination was first identified and claimed), and there's not much bad about that in my view.

Perhaps it is best I rephrase.  Early on, when these issues (racism, sexism, whatever other -isms) were commonplace and had a very large influence on society (beatings, harassment, denial of employment or reduced standards), it was indeed the oppressed who fought back.  And damn good thing they did, too.

But those issues were fixed.  Certainly, there are people who feel personally bigoted against something or another (hell, I'm one of them.  I don't like it, but I do know it), but society as a whole doesn't oppress these people anymore.    Equality has been established, and people are beginning to accept each other as individuals, rather than classifications.  No more massive protests are needed.

Now we've got a different problem.  Some people never got the memo.  There are still people who feel that these groups are provoked, given lesser opportunities or downright oppressed by the "majority", and so they demand even more equality.

Feminists have taken up the mantle (or at least the call) of women's rights advocates.  However, the radicals who have a disturbing tendency of leading these groups seem to feel that women are still being heavily oppressed and that the chauvinist pigs who own everything need to lighten up.

When this batshit propaganda works, it ends up tipping the scales in the other direction.  I won't go so far as to say that things are otherwise perfect now, hell no.  We'll need to settle down and get comfortable for a while yet before we can achieve perfect gender equality.  However, the problem nowadays seems to be that women who are otherwise unqualified are getting jobs or privileges that they normally wouldn't, since those handing them out don't want to upset the "equal rights activists".  This is not equality, this is preference.

In this particular case of discrimination, there hasn't been all that much "help" from men, but that might be due to the caustic attitude some of these crazies have for guys.

I've got no problem with women.  It's feminists I don't like.  Why?  Because they don't believe in the equality they preach, and hypocrites piss me off to no end.


However, on the subject of "race", there has been a significant amount of uproar caused by Caucasians.  They're the touchiest ones, except for some radicals in the African-American (a term which is dreadfully misused, since most people in that ethnic grouping have got absolutely nothing to do with Africa) who insist on being just as insulted as ever before.

If some racist remark lets slip or someone gets wind of a black dude who got turned down for a job (which he may or may not have been qualified for), and you'll get a swarm of pasty-whites banging down the offender's doors.  This would be no problem, hell it'd be great, if the supposedly offended party actually gave a damn.  But to my knowledge, they're just trying to fit in without all the racial distinctions being called on, whether it be in their favor or otherwise.

This is where I see a problem.  People are getting offended, because they feel someone else should be offended.  As I stated before, if an individual tells me personally that something I said or did (regardless of what it might be) offended them, I will try and refrain from doing or saying that around them or in reference to them.  However, if some white guy comes up and says that something I said or did is offensive to an ethnic group in general, and that I should be ashamed of myself, I will politely tell him to depart and perform autointercourse.

This is particularly strange when there are three parties in a conversation, and while I am talking to the second party the third party tells me that something I said is offensive to the second party.  I will generally disregard this, as it seems stupid to me that the third party should claim how the second party feels.


I'm going to have to break this off now, but I intend to continue with some comments about gay pride.  Again, nothing against them.  Just against the fanatics.

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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #18 on: February 23, 2009, 09:58:32 am »

They are just effing words, if you get offended by them maybe you should get the fuck off our planet, is what I say to politicle correctness.  If I want to refer to some race or "ethnicity" I'l use any damn word I want too and if you take offense,then get the bloody hell away from me.

Well then, be prepared for the social ostracism that ensues when you deliberately offend people of good taste.  It's not like there's any sort of laws telling you what to say.  It only means you've shown yourself to be a jerk.

Hey, I don't care about race, were all Homo-Sapiens, why should people get offended by a word aimed at a specific brand of Homo-Sapiens.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #19 on: February 23, 2009, 10:41:44 am »

Anyways, pride.

I've been in Long Beach, CA during several gay pride parades.  Hordes of people come down and hang around for a while, and there's usually a concert with at least a few bands playing.  The only annoying thing about this is that sometimes they play during the middle of the night, and only the bass has enough power to carry across to where we are, so there's this endless "bum bum bum bum-ba-bum bum bum" carrying on when you're trying to sleep...

But that's completely irrelevant.  What I'm getting at are a couple oddities regarding gay (or any other) pride parades/festivals.  We see people holding aloft placards saying "I'm proud of my gay son", and I have to wonder "okay...  Are you proud because he's your son, or because he's gay?".  Used to be that people would be mortally afraid of their children having "unusual" (even though it's really not that unusual at all) sexual preferences.  Nowadays, it's almost a sign of distinction to have a homosexual child.

There's an absolutely delightful French film called "The Closet", where a guy's life is essentially going down the crapper.  He's ignored or bullied by his coworkers, his estranged son refuses to speak to him (the same could be said of his ex-wife), and he's heard that he will lose his job in the upcoming "economic adjustment" of the company.  He winds up meeting a man who gives him the advice that he should simply pretend to be gay.  The stranger arranges for some edited pictures depicting the man in some compromising homosexual liaisons, which are then secretly distributed through the company. 

Suddenly, his coworkers either respect him or try to avoid confrontation (and thus get labeled as bigots), his wife and son are now far more willing to speak with him, and his boss is essentially forced to keep him on. 

It's a delightful film, I heartily recommend it.

What I'm getting at is that, in several cases, we've completely overshot "equality", and gone straight into "some are more equal than others".


If someone were to attempt a "straight pride" rally, they would be publicly flogged and permanently labeled as mindlessly prejudiced.  The "Black Power" equivalent would be (and commonly is, if you look at correlations between Black Power groups and White Supremacists) called Neo-Nazis and described as dangerous threats to society.

Hell, there's even a "Black Entertainment Channel" (which frankly I would regard as more insulting than any alleged racist remarks.  Most of the stuff I've seen on there is crap).  Can you imagine what would happen if someone suggested a White Entertainment Channel?

I'm not saying that the prejudice against some of these groups is completely gone.  There are of course pockets of idiocy in regards to just about anything.  However, the pockets and the people fighting those pockets tend to find themselves in radically different locations.  Thus we end up with people fighting for a cause that's already proved its point.  But they'll be damned if they don't make a difference!

Another funny thing is that straight white males are one of the smaller minorities these days...  At least in the states.


Racism, sexism, and other prejudices are based on making a generalization of a group of people, rather than treating them as equal individuals.   Feeling sorry for a "group" of people or trying to fight for the sake of a "group" of people you see as being different from yourself are forms of racism in this sense.  Just not the most commonly thought-of ways.

I will try to treat other people with as much politeness and respect as I can.  If they present themselves, as individuals, to be worthy of more or less than what I am giving, I will accommodate.  I won't say that I see all people in exactly the same light, I can't.  I will try my best to give them the benefit of the doubt as individuals, however. 

That's all I would expect.

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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #20 on: February 23, 2009, 10:49:27 am »

Hey, I don't care about race, were all Homo-Sapiens, why should people get offended by a word aimed at a specific brand of Homo-Sapiens.

Let me share my personal experience.

I came from a smallish town, about 12k people.  Throughout my childhood, I was made to think there was something wrong with me because of my sexual orientation.  Nothing against me directly, but the frequent use of slurs and ubiquitous negative attitudes of those around me didn't leave me in much doubt.  Not exactly surprisingly, intense self loathing about the subject ensued.

Now, how exactly do you think I feel about that town?  Does it surprise you that I'm offended by the words that made my childhood an odyssey of secret self loathing?

I don't want to ban homophobic language.  You are legally entitled to use it.  But know that if you use homophobic language, I will think less of you.  Why?  Because you have shown me great disrespect.

Likewise, if you use racist language, I will think less of you for that.  Your disrespect is being directed towards someone other then me, but I still don't approve of it.  You should know better.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #21 on: February 23, 2009, 11:16:46 am »

If someone were to attempt a "straight pride" rally, they would be publicly flogged and permanently labeled as mindlessly prejudiced.  The "Black Power" equivalent would be (and commonly is, if you look at correlations between Black Power groups and White Supremacists) called Neo-Nazis and described as dangerous threats to society.

Ironically, the name of the largest pro-gay student organization in the country is the "Gay-Straight alliance."

What exactly does straight pride consist of that it needs to be advocated?  Gay pride groups are trying to save kids from having to grow up in self-loathing because of the intolerance of others.  Can you actually name a cause a "straight pride" organization is needed to advocate?  Are you sure it isn't already being advocated?  I mean, we have the movements for marriage, we have feminism movements, we have celebrations of masculinity.  Actually, there might be a need for a straight-male pride movement these days.  Straight-males are always getting a bad rap.  But it's not like you'd be considered a nazi for taking up the cause that we need positive depictions of male-heterosexuality.  So long as you aren't saying there's anything wrong with the non straight males out there, most gays would actually support such a movement.


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Hell, there's even a "Black Entertainment Channel" (which frankly I would regard as more insulting than any alleged racist remarks.  Most of the stuff I've seen on there is crap).  Can you imagine what would happen if someone suggested a White Entertainment Channel?
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Another funny thing is that straight white males are one of the smaller minorities these days...  At least in the states.

I was unaware of prejudice that straight white males face...

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Racism, sexism, and other prejudices are based on making a generalization of a group of people, rather than treating them as equal individuals.   Feeling sorry for a "group" of people or trying to fight for the sake of a "group" of people you see as being different from yourself are forms of racism in this sense.  Just not the most commonly thought-of ways.

I will try to treat other people with as much politeness and respect as I can.  If they present themselves, as individuals, to be worthy of more or less than what I am giving, I will accommodate.  I won't say that I see all people in exactly the same light, I can't.  I will try my best to give them the benefit of the doubt as individuals, however. 

That's all I would expect.

If you are this open minded, then you can proudly call yourself a feminist, racially tolerant and accepting towards gays.  Because if you are treating people like individuals and avoiding prejudice as well as you can, you are all of these things.  For that you get kudos.  Groups like the GSA and NAACP don't ask any more of you.

But you draw completely the wrong impression about what organizations promoting causes like gay pride advance.  Look at their actual agenda, they want to erase inequalities.  And celebrating gay pride doesn't reduce people to a mass any more then celebrating Saint Patrick's Day reduces people to a mass.  We Irish don't stop being people on Saint Patrick's Day, do we?

Edit: Btw, I'm perfectly serious about you being allowed to call yourself a feminist, etc, if you treat people like people.  Every time someone reminds people that equality just amounts to treating people decently, the cause of equality is advanced.  You don't need to march in any parades to be an advocate of equality.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #22 on: February 23, 2009, 02:00:52 pm »

Homosexuality(and note I only mean non-bi homosexuality) is a sign of overpopulation, if people chose to expel themself from the gene pool I pity them, but I really can't hate them or stop them from doing it.
Of course I wouldn't want my child to do so, but I don't think other gay people would be responsible in that scenario.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #23 on: February 23, 2009, 02:55:34 pm »

Likewise, if you use racist language, I will think less of you for that.  Your disrespect is being directed towards someone other then me, but I still don't approve of it.  You should know better.

Except its not disrespect, its just bloody words, I won't mean offense if I'm saying a word, most likely I'm saying it because its convenient, or I'm just pissed off at something, (Of which case I'm probably throwing slurs at Christians[Yay for anger managment problem])
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #24 on: February 23, 2009, 03:01:32 pm »

Likewise, if you use racist language, I will think less of you for that.  Your disrespect is being directed towards someone other then me, but I still don't approve of it.  You should know better.

Except its not disrespect, its just bloody words, I won't mean offense if I'm saying a word, most likely I'm saying it because its convenient, or I'm just pissed off at something, (Of which case I'm probably throwing slurs at Christians[Yay for anger managment problem])

Just so you know, you are making yourself out to be quite a moron. Quit while your ahead.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #25 on: February 23, 2009, 03:14:25 pm »

Look who's talking...

No offense.
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #26 on: February 23, 2009, 03:38:35 pm »

Likewise, if you use racist language, I will think less of you for that.  Your disrespect is being directed towards someone other then me, but I still don't approve of it.  You should know better.

Except its not disrespect, its just bloody words, I won't mean offense if I'm saying a word, most likely I'm saying it because its convenient, or I'm just pissed off at something, (Of which case I'm probably throwing slurs at Christians[Yay for anger managment problem])

Just so you know, you are making yourself out to be quite a moron. Quit while your ahead.

I tend to do that.  :D
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Re: On political correctness and whether or not it can go too far.
« Reply #27 on: February 23, 2009, 04:27:40 pm »

We see people holding aloft placards saying "I'm proud of my gay son", and I have to wonder "okay...  Are you proud because he's your son, or because he's gay?".

Do you really even have to ask that question?

My first boyfriend was nearly disowned and kicked out of his home at the age of seventeen. How do you think that makes people feel, when their own parents -- loving parents, and loved in return -- so reject who they are that they are willing to disown them? This is not a myth or fantasy. I have known several other people that have one or both parents who will not speak to them because they're gay. Is that more equal than others to you?

It's hardly pockets of discrimination -- I grew up in one of the most Liberal cities in the United States, and I was regularly harassed as a kid. I still see roommate ads that say no gays will be considered. Gay teens are four times as likely to commit suicide, and we don't even have fully equal protection under law yet. In today's world, with today's conditions, what parent who loves their children and isn't ashamed of them wouldn't do everything they could to show them that they are loved and supported, not just 'despite' them being who they are, but fully because of who they are?

Parents who walk in gay pride parades do so because they love and support their children, not because they are wearing their children like some status symbol. A parent holding a sign that says they are proud of their gay son isn't proud that they have a gay son, they're proud that their son is their son, for all that their son is, unconditionally and uncompromisingly.

There's an absolutely delightful French film called "The Closet"...

...which is a goofy comedy about a guy working at a condom factory that poses as a gay man to save his job, and the wacky shenanigans that ensue. It's not supposed to be taken seriously, let alone inform your worldview!
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« Reply #28 on: February 23, 2009, 05:12:47 pm »

I wanted to avoid this thread due to my very lame viewpoints, but after seeing Johnatan S. Fox posted and revealed who he/she/it really is, thereby nipping an inside joke in its bud, well...um...

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Political correctness (adjectivally, politically correct; both forms commonly abbreviated to PC) is a term applied to language, ideas, policies, or behavior seen as seeking to minimize offense to gender, racial, cultural, disabled, aged or other identity groups. Conversely, the term "politically incorrect" is used to refer to language or ideas that may cause offense or that are unconstrained by orthodoxy.

Personally, I don't like being offended. So this means I'm for political correctness. I could see people being upset about not being able to offend people, but it merely means you have to LAUNDER your criticism so as to make it "politically correct". Clean up your words, so that you are only offending individuals as opposed to entire identity groups.

Sadly, I'm not very good at laundering my own criticism of [INSERT IDENITIY GROUP HERE], and frankly, I don't want any criticism of my own status too. So the Golden Rule applies here. I don't want to be offended, so I offend nobody. But if you can launder criticism, I don't see how it is bad (except, prehaps, to the person you are offending).

What I hate dislike (gotta be "politically correct" here) is people stating that because an ideology is politically correct, it MUST be wrong. A politically correct ideology may be wrong, but it cannot be wrong based solely on the fact that it does not spit on a certain group. There may be politically incorrect ideologies that are wrong.
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« Reply #29 on: February 23, 2009, 05:19:36 pm »

You didn't see that.  ;D
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