Stock equipment is better than you may think.
(Just don't ever use the Ghastly Gibus.)
I've gotten plenty of kills with the Heavy's stock minigun. Only reason I said what I said last night is on the three servers I played on yesterday most everyone seemed to be using fancier stuff.
Some people argue that stock equipment is the true class equipment. There are no real drawbacks, trust me you'll do fine with it. I'm pretty bad at TF2 aswell, but if you can scrape up a few kills every spawn then I feel decent enough to keep playing.
So far yesterday on a server that is my level I get 10-40 kills a match, usually around 27-35, with the Heavy and his stock equipment. However two-thirds of the time I'm on a server that's too hard where I get maybe one kill a match using the same stuff. I'm tempted to check out the Aerolite Gaming servers mentioned a page or two ago but I live in California and the servers are hosted in the United Kingdom so I'm a little reluctant to do so.
Also I'm thinking I might give Soldier another try considering the two-thirds of the time thing with Heavy. I did get a level 18 rocket launcher off of one of my matches last night so if the default one doesn't work I'm going to try that to see if that helps. Also got a level 5 saw yesterday so I might be interested in giving Medic a try today as well, both with and without it.
Hmm i remember playing on a furry server once or twice... i thing it was called "furrypound" or something.
The most sexuual thing was a vagineer running around and 1 hit KOing people with a golden wrench of disintegration +3.
Other than that... no sprays of sexual RP was to be seen.
Hmm...
Well like I said last night furries are alright when done right. As long as they aren't horribly cheesy prismatic Mary Sues that make murring sounds with every other word they're alright in my book. Again, I got my start in online gaming in Furcadia. I've even had a few fursonas and my senior year term paper was a twenty page report on cultural anthropomorphism, which covered furries in mythology and pop culture. I got an A+ on that one.