I should not have put it like that; whenever someone says "X is the worst X ever" then they will be wrong.
Thank you for more understanding than I deserved, chaoticjosh. I do think that Suburbs are not efficient social structures. There are several reasons:
-As DJ stated, the very wide-open nature of Suburbs increases commute times and makes Mass Transit much less efficient. Even trips to the store require driving. Dense cities means shorter, more efficient commutes. Rural areas have longer travel times, but are non-centralized, meaning no rush hour as every body moves into commercial areas and back out.
-Neighborhoods and communities do not form as readily; there is an isolating feeling, though this varies significantly depending on the architecture and culture of an area. Rural communities are generally more close knit. Suburbs do, however, have the advantage over cities, which can be even more alienating.
-Resource inefficiency; grouped dwellings, such as apartment buildings or other dense housing, looses much less waste heat. Lower-density housing in rural areas does not rely on water or heating grids. Suburbs keep large green lawns year-round as a matter of course.
-Aesthetics: Rural homes are unique, built with character and growing with families (though I admit the results are sometimes not pretty). Urban areas can also have their own charm. Indeed, a single suburban home is normally lovely. But when they're all made out of ticky-tacky and they all look just the same...
As that last one shows, this is an objective thing in many ways. I am no expert at modern social organization, and I am certainly bigoted to prefer the rural climate. I would be very interested in hearing from an expert, and I'd like to hear your view.