I don't know if this exists. I'm looking for game recommendations.
Okay, so I'm looking for a game that's somewhere between X-Com and your average RTS. Should have plenty of strategy, terrain should matter (cover and concealment), should have more than like eight guys without being unwieldly (X-Com stops being fun when you have more than a small handful of soldiers), reflexes should not be a major factor, but should not be absurdly slow (again, X-Com stops being fun when each turn takes forever...I like my turn-based games, but here I'm looking for something realtime if possible). Multiplayer is an even bigger plus. Resource management should be limited to ammo.
So far, the closest thing I've ever found to this hypothetical game is Close Combat 3. And that is a *FUN* WW2 game. You order squads around, and they have at least marginal AI (tell them to move near a wall and face north, and they'll get on the south side and crouch down). Realtime, but slow-paced: Cover fire is important, and deaths are actually pretty rare among infantry unless you get caught without cover or flanked--it's a thinking man's realtime game, for sure. Your units have their -own- reflexes, and if you want to sneak up on them, you have to be smart (instead of just catching your opponent when he isn't looking). It fits all of what I'm looking for, except that it's very dated, now...and maybe it's a little -too- slow.
I haven't gone looking for new games in quite a while...I remember some Starship Troopers thing a long time ago, but real-time fully tactical games don't thrill me. They're too fast, and I don't like reflexes in my thinking (RTSes are even worse, because then you get reflexes in your resource production). A long time ago there was a pretty awesome online-only game that was similar too, on a service called 2AM Games, but that died out quite a while back.
Any recommendations?