Print

Please login or register.
1 Hour 1 Day 1 Week 1 Month Forever
Login with username, password and session length

[Imic]

Reading that caused something to click in my brain, and it all make sense now... I like feminine guys and masculine girls.

[Vector]

A student I TA for asked to have me changed for someone else.

I wish I could be changed for someone else, too.

[Great Order]

In the "Dawning realisations" of my transness:

I used to find hanging out with girls a lot easier than boys when I was a kid.

I wonder if that was related.

[Magmacube_tr]

Turkey is doing an anti-LGBTQ+ march. Agaaaaaaiiiin.

Ugh, I am still here folks. I was there before and after you did the first one in September. I am still here before this one. And, guess what? I will still be here after this one ends too.

Erdoğan knows he is gonna lose. So he is trying to shift the peoples attention away from the soaring food prices and the state of the economy in a bid to try and raise his already abysmall chance of winning.

And yes, this ideology stems directly from Islam. Which is a branch of Judaism.

ABRAHAMIIIIICS!!!

[MaxTheFox]

I've been wondering that myself, as recently I've been thinking I actually fall into one of those.  Not sure if I'm fully committed to identifying as either though.  Anyway consider this speaking as an outsider.

Frankly it depends on who you asked and what day it is.  Part if it seems like bi has a lot of baggage/stereotypes people don't want to deal with, part of it is gender got more complicated and "binary" doesn't entirely make sense anymore.

I've heard pan basically disreguards gender entirely when it comes to potential relationships, whereas a bi person might favor masculine over feminine (or vice-versa).  So I'm leaning to bi since I prefer feminine people.  Although I know of a youtuber with similar preferences that identifies as pan so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

also bi has a better flag

Yeah, this. I call myself bi because I like females more. Guys are hot too but not as much.

[DogsRNice]

I'm really sure that I'm trans. I know I'm female, which took a while for me since I'm kinda bad with introspection lol

But dang, knowing if I feel romantic attraction to people or not is confusing. I'm pretty sure I'm pan (it feels like it fits best I guess) though I heavily lean female. But knowing if what I'm feeling is just a strong platonic attachment or romantic attraction is hard, I guess any advice for sorting that out would be good.

I'm also a major lurker so it may be a year before I check this thread again lol

[alway]

Yeah, there's like this whole other dimension that comes up with transness where it's like 'do I want to date them, or do I want to be them.' And it's hard to distinguish, especially if you haven't ever thought about it in those terms. Then you look back a decade later and go 'oh, I didn't want to date/be with that person/character, I had gender envy about them and wanted to be them.' Sometimes it's a person, sometimes it's a character in media, and sometimes it's an OC/character created by the person themselves (as seems to be the case of Dresden Codak, whose author came out as trans a couple years back).

[Egan_BW]

I have a sexuality. Will report back if I discover I have a gender as well.

[EuchreJack]

Quote deleted, just in case

I'm a white male (sexuality is always assumed to be whatever people want to see, but it is heterosexual), so I rarely get fired due to initial or long-standing bias.

But I still get fired by folks. And I still wish I could be someone else. And I've been able to win over people that weren't initially thrilled with me. And I've had folks get pissed at me, then manage to "fix it". And I've gotten fired by folks that I had thought were quite happy with me. Sometimes, it's just them. Mostly, it's their loss. Usually, I'm happy to be rid of them.

[Rose]

Oh it's one of these threads.

Hello, trans lesbian here, just gonna settle in a corner and watch things.

It's been fun watching bay12 become more and more queer over time, myself included.

(Just in case there's anybody from years and years ago that doesn't recognize me, I use to go by

Spoiler (click to show/hide)

Japa

and made a bunch of mods)

[Loud Whispers]

I'm a white male (sexuality is always assumed to be whatever people want to see, but it is heterosexual), so I rarely get fired due to initial or long-standing bias.

But I still get fired by folks. And I still wish I could be someone else. And I've been able to win over people that weren't initially thrilled with me. And I've had folks get pissed at me, then manage to "fix it". And I've gotten fired by folks that I had thought were quite happy with me. Sometimes, it's just them. Mostly, it's their loss. Usually, I'm happy to be rid of them.

Yeah life's too short to worry much too much about people who don't communicate their emotions honestly. I get tired of dealing with people who are all smiles 24/7 then they complain to me that a mutual friend's been driving them up the wall for years over a problem they could've fixed with 1 convo. Oh btw don't direct quote Vec as they like keeping a low digital footprint for safety's sakes

I have a sexuality. Will report back if I discover I have a gender as well.

Tempting to revive the "shit let's be xyz thread" to have a gender polling

[MrRoboto75]

I have a sexuality.

hey, me too

[Magmacube_tr]

I have a sexuality.

hey, me too

I though I was the only one!

[Loud Whispers]

Spoiler (click to show/hide)

Under high pressure and extremely low temperatures gender can form a crystalline solid with liquid properties

[Great Order]

The gender triple point, when you're really questioning.