With the talk about the damaging of civilian infrastructure, I'd like to point at what happened in Europe during WWII. In all areas where there was fighting, there was massive damage to civilian infrastructure.
We are not in the mid-20th century. Standards of what is acceptable in a war and what isn't are different now. Believe it or not, turning a city full of civilians into rubble by indiscriminate artillery barrages and carpet bombings are not OK.
Also, we are talking not only about random strikes. We are talking about deliberate attacks on train stations during a publicly announced evacuation, supermarkets, and power stations with precise weapons. Now Russians damaged a dam in an effort to flood a city. They did it with 8 high precision cruise missiles, deliberately spending millions of dollars on this "noble goal".
Some of the Ukrainians will do things to Russians that they have believe Russians did to Ukrainians. Should these be compared as similar crimes?
*breathes in and breathes out to avoid going full F-word sentences* "Believe Russians did?" IT IS A DAMN FACT. Now, with significant areas liberated, we find graves and torture chambers every damned day. We hear horrifying stories of survivors.
Ukrainians aren't doing this. UNDERSTAND? No, I am not naive. I understand there are sporadic executions (and even torturing) of POWs... And some collaborators got... really unlucky. But it is not by orders from high-ranking officers. Individual war crimes always happen in a war. Especially when the other side went full ethnocide mode.
Don't you dare to use "Ukrainians and Russians are both..." in any damned context.
Above all else, I hate war.
I
believe that Russians have been committing those atrocities. I would have believed it even if evidence was not there. Every prolonged war/special-military-action has atrocities involving murder and torture, including all those in the last ten years. The publicity changes, but the activities remain the same.
I also
believe the Ukrainian refugees redirected into Russia are destined for slavery of one sort or another. I don't need to see "facts" to believe this... history is full of burning cities and civilians being herded down the road.
I do not believe there are standards of acceptable warfare that survive war.
War is what happens when the conversation is dropped and the weapons are raised. The various "rules of war" were made during the time of the conversation, not during the time of the war. During war, people forget who they are and why they are. Their morals... their morals disappear.