...you mean several things which seem to be somewhat short of the complete mutual consent of a love-across-the-divide situation as is being discussed?
Is that what's being discussed? I thought we were discussing OP's risque boundary-pushing suggestion of "a dwarf female who gets really hot thinking about those sexy sexy kobolds." (Half-breeds and interspecies breeding have already been
discussed extensively.)
I stated that some types of content fit better in some narrative settings than in others, and DF is not an appropriate place for erotic content. Instead of leading to a discussion of which types of content would best fit DF, this led to some harsh, insulting, and incoherent responses. People got triggered.
Looking through the archives, this whole sex conversation has already been worked through
here, and probably elsewhere. So we could work over the same ground again: Can this hypothetical dwarf also get aroused thinking about a gorlak? A sheep? An antman? And where did this "complete mutual consent" idea come from? But let's not go there.
I've spent years in the real world studying narrative. So I thought that I was making fairly obvious points about the connections between settings, moods, and plots. Some people found my comments confusing and upsetting, and for that I apologize.