Sorry, one of my coping mechanisms is math:
What I'm having a hard time understanding is this: 1.2 million US deaths at a case fatality rate of 3% means 40 million total infected, or 125,000 cases per million population. If the CFR is 1%, that would mean 120 million infected, or 375,000 cases per million population.
Iceland has a case rate of at least 1200 per million, which is from the low-population country of Iceland. Italy, which is the media poster child for disaster, is probably a better proxy for expectations, which is ~700 cases per million. Let's say even that Italy's case count doubles, that would only be 1400 cases per million population. A case rate of 125k per million seems unlikely actually, even for Italy: the plots of total cases in Italy is starting to flatten (log plot) which suggests it's starting to get under some control.
So even if we take Iceland's infection rate of 1200 cases per million population, and a CFR of 3%, the US should see about 12k deaths, not 1.2 million (using 330M as US pop). Do we really think actual cases are 100 times the official counts? I can see 5-20 times yes, but 100 seems... unlikely.
We are already in social distancing mode to some extent basically worldwide - so is it reality or just FUD that we are going to have total case counts as high as these scenarios are playing out?
Spain's total case curve is also flattening, as is France, as is Germany. US is not, it looks to be constant-rate exponential still (looks linear on the log plot) but I suspect that is due to testing availability not actual infection rate. UK also looks constant-rate exponential, but I think again that is due to testing policy.