Thread for ex-Christians to talk in and for discussion of anything related to their experience of deconversion from Christianity, or life afterwards, or just doubts/questions, etc. Anything at all goes really that's related to ex-Christianity. Please be respectful and do not attack anyone.
Anyone is welcome of course; that's why it's "exchristians thread" and not "exchristians' thread."
I became an agnostic quite young, I think about 8 or 9, then an atheist soon after. I think the things that pushed me over the line of being christian to atheist was when I started paying more attention to some old testament stories, reading history books and learning about pagan mythologies and eastern religions like Buddhism.
I basically found myself going through a period where god as presented by scripture seemed gleefully evil, often more evil than the villainous deities of pagan faiths, Christians throughout older history appeared barbaric, small minded and superstitious and nothing I was learning about modern history inclined me to think any better of modern Christians as a group.
My transition to atheism proved a bit awkward, though not because of family or anything. My mother was vaguely Christian (now agnostic) at the time and my father was an atheist, but my social circle included the Boy Scouts of America, the Berlin branch run mostly for American embassy families. They of course had mandatory religious hoo hah as a part of the routine, though said religious hoo hah became more pronounced when I moved to the US for a year and encountered the original recipe boy scouts. Dropped out of them there because I frankly had no respect for people who would force me to listen to bible extracts when I professed neither appreciation nor belief in them, not to mention the cultish flag nonsense they felt the need to do all the time.
Then back here in Scotland for some reason my school used to get some local pastor to come make vaguely christian statements at us in assemblies. Always found it pretty damn pointless, and kind of insulting really.
Never really had any problems with people since becoming an atheist, just organisations I was in for lack of other options like the scouts and school that for some reason felt it necessary to make the religious activities mandatory.