"I know that's extreme cheating, but I really want to feel out all the game's mechanics."
I do similar things. Do not feel ashamed. Dissect this game as much as you want, learn the mechanics, read, etc. Once you feel like you're really good at the game, challenge yourself. Look at the challenges and stupid dwarf tricks on the wiki, get out of your comfort zone, and look to other players to become a better one yourself. It shouldn't take you too long.
I use all of my embark points as much as possible. For reference, I try to get rid of the high embark point items like rope, stepladders, etc. since they can be made easily
I use the maximum amount of points on my dwarves as well. Proficient miners, carpenters, masons, growers, etc. My proficient carpenter made 30 beds before summer, and it's crucial to have a good mason for tables and chairs for a growing population. I find it's the most important thing to grow your population since stagnation makes everything so much slower.
For tools, three picks and axes just in case they get stolen for my last embark, and any kind of ore if I want it. Copper nuggets were 6 embark points, so I got a lot of those. For anything else, I would get individual garden vegetables since they come in their own bag plus individual sand. I get three dogs and cats. Two females, one male. You can also get chickens or something for SO cheap, like 6 points per chicken or bird. Make some nest boxes and you're set on food.
All in all, invest in dwarves since it's much more efficient for them to create wealth instead of limiting yourself to embark points. Then, go for the most efficient things like chickens and extra food for farmers and just go from there.