Taking the time aside, its interesting that you mention orphanages forward of any changes to animal caretakers in your recent live interview you did with Clinodev BlindIrl, so some of my questions are feedback based to that.
* In terms of baby mismanagement, would mothers in the military be programmed with better baby handling UI (putting them down for one), or are prospective parents (dads and mothers all) going to pick up any incidental babies on the battlefield and start using them as improv shields. (yeah that'll sort their stress-balance out all-right) like they roughhandle their own offspring.
* And how do you expect to handle some of the odder fringe cases of babies left behind from experiments or semi-intelligents (sieging and wild trolls comes to mind killed in the midst of combat) who don't really fit into the category of being socially presentable unless you have some weird hands-off goblin creche thing going on to encourage it.
I can imagine goblins might even feel a small fuzzy feeling welling inside about becoming the private parental guardian of some child they have snatched from the field of battle or out theiving, each warrior grabbing every youngling they can in arm before trying to scarper or toasting their victory over a fortress, but probably loathe actually looking after them communally.
That and the dwarf couple with a awkward adoptive troll son, who whilst very groomed and much loved is undoubtedly still a troll in a tunic.