For reference, I left because Flabort gave out meta-information that they were town.
B12 acts too much like a support group and too little like serious business, so there's a particular kind of AtE which is taboo for scum to fake. I either had to leave or start abusing that and as you can see from my giving out no information rather than false information, I don't feel like playing with that sort of advantage.
Also, I'm busy and have better things to do than play mafia games with 3+ TBF's (Flabort, TBF, Tiruin).
Hee~
I'm stereotyped. That's pretty deep.
It's that there's a sense of bias and disconnection that we're all more connected than other mafia forums that give off that notice--it's actually town-friendly, but regardless of the sense of connection between players, it doesn't affect the gameplay at all. Moreso that the D1 play you did was...not helpful in comparison to this basis.
That's pretty serious business to be able to play as you are in a game, and yet post-game be friends with each other. So you abusing this is moreso out of your own perspective [and utter uncouthness towards 'TBFs']
EBWOP:
Letting players like TBF or (doll) back into games after disrupting them is how you kill communities. It's not a good idea in my opinion.
No, it's not letting players in. It's letting attitude color your behavior. Your bitterness was just immaturely inappropriate, and TBF has his own personal concerns that are outside of your knowledge
It's rather how your personality is in how you behaved, that affects other people.
So, to summarize it: Pushing fault onto others instead of helping them is how you kill communities. What you do affects others
by intent just as much as your own wording and action--TBF tries his best (he can only post by phone, he's pretty much young, and he's on the autism spectrum yet is pretty awesome like everyone else); so using whatever you've seen in him (but not mentioned about it at all to him or in public), shouldn't be used as a basis.
Because that's how bias grows. And how it affects interactions. It becomes part of your perception to others, and this is what's used in interactions.
Just because Flabort mentioned his own personal experiences doesn't make this a 'therapy session' because it's merely an impression. Perhaps an impression that blew up in between the time when one read it and when they had posted about it, but
still an impression.
If you are going to treat this like a support group and frame it that way--it's better framed in the idea of compassion in the military. You can't work well at all if you treat 'serious business' as some kind of grump-a-thon; camaraderie works, and it instills a sense of community and togetherness/belongingness [which is pretty much a basic social need]. So yeah. We can be pretty serious; and that's how we can pretty much end up in a game where everyone dies
because nobody intended for everyone to die.
It's not the
ideal outcome, but it is an outcome that had happened by virtue of everyone playing together.
You're a lot better than how bitter you were, here. And you're always welcome into this community (sockpuppet or not...but preferably as 'not a sockpuppet' :v because why anyway); it's moreso the bitter attitude that's not that welcome x.x
Like: How did the thinking even get to 'coddle group' than anything actually therapeutic? That's how I sensed out your idea of support group or otherwise--not really like a support group.