nb: the rest of this post is off-topic and I'm only posting it because others have addressed me directly; please forgive and let your eyes skim past it if you understandably don't care. I promise I won't continue to derail the thread any further. In fact, I apologize for the interruption. I know it's probably unwise and I can be hotheaded and get drawn into fights. I regret the whole thing but since statements were made about me in public I feel obligated to address them in public.
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How so? What
rule do you think I broke? I genuinely do not get it. I specifically went and reread the forum guidelines just for this, to make sure I hadn't missed something, and I still don't see it.
I'm not picking a fight or insulting someone. Although I feel that I've been insulted to a certain degree, I don't think it deserves moderator attention, so I'm just going to point it out and let it go peacefully. I have not used bigoted language. I am not spamming, and as the topic was american politics, I didn't disrupt or derail the thread. (I might argue that a long screed directed against me is derailing, but I'm not going to start a fight over this either.) I haven't posted illegal or sexually explicit material. Finally, I also haven't violated the terms of use.
Please understand that this is not hostility. This business is genuinely tiresome to me. Can you please PM me and explain what you think is in violation of a rule? I have only tried to discuss something peacefully and neutrally on a discussion forum.
Truean, I don't generally remember anything that happened more than a few months ago, nor did I have any idea you were transgender, but, considering that I don't believe in a gender binary and have never had a problem with people doing what they want with their own bodies and lives, I really do not believe your accusations that I "chased you away from these forums for being transgendered", in your exact words. I think that's a lie, and I don't appreciate being lied about. Since I see you've private messaged me, I'm going to take this matter there, but I want it a matter of public record that I dispute your claim and I think you're behaving extremely manipulatively.
One example of your behaving manipulatively is where you've said "You following around a disabled lady that blocked you is not ok". One of the great things about the internet is that most people even with disabilities can participate much the same as anyone else. I once knew a blind young woman who played text-based games online with a screen reader. Furthermore, it's frankly nuts to accuse me of "following [someone] around" for... posting in a public discussion forum. I don't keep track of people who have claimed to block me, I barely keep track of who I'm responding to at any given time. If it's true that femmelf doesn't want to talk to me, that's fine, sorry for wasting everyone's time, let my reply languish in uselessness. But you surely see how framing talking on a public discussion board in an entirely normal and neutral way as some kind of harassment is deeply manipulative and wrong.
Anyway, I'm not going to continue this discussion in the thread, because that would be derailing; I'm only replying now because you already did. While I don't think you're "out to get me", or at least I didn't until certain accusations made just now, I do think your claim to be sticking up for me in private is extremely manipulative. If people have a problem with things I wrote or genuinely believe that I've broken some rule, please, by all means, I would appreciate it if they would discuss it with me directly in PM, as I'm not only willing but desperately trying to understand.[original spoiler ended here]
Edit: Just remembered I can spoiler this so I feel less bad about being in the way of discussion.
ETA2: I just read the thread you, by which I mean Truean, linked after claiming you convinced others not to report me. Certainly in that thread I was not at my kindest, and I apologize for that. I also unwisely let myself get sucked into the thread derail. However, I don't see how the thread supports any of your claims, and I do stand by the statement I made at the time that I hadn't violated any forum rules, at least until after others had already started derailing by acting uncharitably toward me. I'm leaving this out of the spoiler so you can see my apology.