At some point it is necessary to acknowledge that there are irreconcilable differences of opinion that no amount of comprehension or diplomacy will fix.
Oh, sure there are. They just get signal boosted to heck and back by otherwise persuadable people holding them up as examples of how the other side is insane, and for a hundred performant reasons people end up thinking they have to express them to "really" hold some ideology or other, since we constantly put our allies through purity tests and at some point pretending to believe in the crap you don't care about seems like a fair price to pay for the stuff you do. That's how we get crank magnetism, which drives more of our culture than people like to admit.
Ultimately, I don't necessarily think I'm wiser than anybody else; I just see a specific cognitive trap I've been trained to identify and avoid popping up in our discourse and it makes us all sound a whole lot less rational than we actually are -- which, of course, is why it's a trap, because it feels too good to think other people are stupid and tells us too little. Then we start looking for reasons to dismiss contrary information instead of understanding it.
As much as it's appealingly simple to think that flyover country is full of backwards idiots in cowboy hats who are literally jumping at shadows and huffing coal dust with their opium, the top three states by wind power generation are Texas, Oklahoma and Iowa. (Kansas is #5.) They're not being built in cities, either, so apparently it's possible to convince at least some of your irreconcilably different hopeless idiots to support wind turbines.