I guess what I'm saying is, "We told you so" isn't going to turn the temperature down on politics in this country. Die hard Trumpians are going to call conspiracy and fake news and everything no matter what you do....it's the folks somewhere closer to the middle that need the space to gracefully convince themselves they didn't back a delirious, corrupt, oligarchic baboon.
They did exactly that, though. Laying aside the question of whether we
should let them lie to themselves about how they were suckered into this, when Real America finally took the wheel, they swerved hard right and drove straight into a ditch. Their shame at that isn't going to be much affected by Democratic sanctimony, I think, and if bitter resentment got them to the polls the first time, pigheaded unwillingness to look facts in the face will probably get them back.
I just don't know how much Democrats will really matter here. The buyer's remorse crowd already wants out; they just need a non-baboonist conservative with a national platform. The specifically anti-Hillary folks are easy to appease. Who, then, is left in Trump's camp and at Trump's rallies but the diehards, and what practical use are they except as a rhetorical punching bag for the next fifty years?
Honestly, were I in the DNC, at this point I'd start proposing putting trigger warnings before football games and so forth specifically to piss off the Trumpians. Heck, run actual Trump voter (photographic) safaris with pith helmets and everything. The people who will tut-tut about the high road will fall in line behind anyone-but-Trump anyway and the Democratic base will have fun with it.