Shut the fuck up. My family's from Virginia. I can list by name my ancestors who died in the civil war, their relatives who died in the civil war, which battle they died at, and where they're buried. If you want me to drop the "faux tears," you should drop the high and mighty liberal shit. Of course I don't approve of racists waving confederate flags, but at least they're not giving war memorials the Saddam treatment.
Maybe you're not shedding a tear because you care more about self-flagellating for other people's racism than you do about your own goddamn history.
Wait, so it's okay now for me to claim the Wehrmacht wasn't all that bad, because one of my grandfathers spent the war dropping bombs on Russian cities, and another one spent quite a bit of time in a special unit* that didn't exactly fight clean? Should I maybe put up a Göring statue in my front yard?
I'll go one step further than RedKing: Fuck your tears, whatever their origin. The confederates were literally worse than Saddam, so it's only good and proper to give them the Saddam treatment - regardless of whether the crotch to which you trace your lineage belonged to a slave owner or just a fellow doing the dirty work for them. Fuck heritage, fuck ancestry, fuck honoring the dead, if it means developing selective moral blindness and not acknowledging what happened in the past. Just like we make mistakes and own up to them, we should accept that our ancestors made mistakes - and even if they did not own up to them, we at least are still alive to do just that.
Why is it important to remember them as Confederate soldiers, as opposed to remembering them as your forebears?
I can't help but notice I never claimed the Confederacy "wasn't all that bad." Perhaps you read that due to your own implicit bias towards restoring the Fourth Reich? /s
And as to that blatant disregard for history, I really don't know what to say. I'm trying pretty hard to be civil here, but fuck the utopian leftist idea that everything is black and white, and nothing is sacred. Sure, the confederacy was a slaveholding state. So was America for half its history. Should we not honor the soldiers who died in the revolution, because one of the sparks was that the British might end slavery? Should we take down the Washington Monument and the Jefferson Memorial, because they were old white men with slaves?
I know that's different, I know. The soldiers who died on the Confederate side of the civil war were fighting against the US Government, and in favor of slavery. Except most of them weren't. Most of them were fighting against what they saw as a government attack on their states (yes, even though most of the war was fought in the Union.) They were wrong. They fought on the wrong side, but after the war was over, America made a big deal about bringing them back into the fold. In history's eyes, they're Americans who temporarily ended up on the wrong side.
TL:DR: I don't want this country to be like Germany where it's nearly impossible to have a war memorial because they were the bad guys. Maybe that works for you, but the divide that caused the civil war here (which was a civil war, not an invasion of foreign countries: another big difference) still exists, and walking over the losing sides consolation prize in the name of "social justice" or whatever it is doesn't seem like a great plan.
Sorru for the probably not well written rant. Still tired.