That first bit, as to the ones behind... honestly? From what I understand and can remember from the last time I checked into that ruddy nonsense, basically none. Those debt goals and that military spending were
goals, not mandates or requests, and if I'm not misremembering their deadline was somewhere in the 2020 or beyond range. And that "deadline" was nothing but a, "Hey, if we ain't there yet come that point let's talk, see if we can't hash some things out" sort of deal. Most NATO nations have been working towards them, military spending going up, and so on. One or two may have met some already, but that was never really the agreement to begin with. It (NATO nations not meeting certain spending levels, et al) has came up recently-ish in US political discourse, but most of the spin there has been pretty pure bullshit.
Examples, you can look to ukraine for an easy one, you can look to what's been going down in chechnya re: homosexuals (and russia's treatment of them and any number of other groups, for that matter) that's been going on as russia, despite having significant control over 'em, pointedly ignore it; if you want another ally with similar human rights that's been on the up and up for the murder, you can go poke at saudi arabia and yemen. I'd have to brush up for a second (and it's way too damn late for that) on neighbor murder for russia, if you're not going to count ukraine, but it's not like they haven't indulged to one extent or another in the last few decades. Russia's issues with human rights and geopolitical aggression aren't exactly hard to notice. Probably harder to miss, really. They're maybe not as bad as some ME/Africa/etc. hellholes, but that's not exactly a shining comparison and it
damn sure doesn't recommend them as someone we particularly want to buddy up with. We have enough problems with that shit as is without inviting more.
Economy wise they're still pretty much entirely reliant on gas. Maybe they're working away from that, but they're not
there by a country mile, and we've latched ourselves to enough oil baron equivalents as is, particularly belligerent ones inclined towards pissing on our more aligned allies' interests and sensibilities. Corruption, bloody hell, if you want more examples than you feel like shaking a stick at, just use google. You'll find all sorts of
fun crap. It's not a subtle issue by any stretch of the meaning.
Re: cyberattacks, because russia can be trusted about as far as the country can be thrown on the subject. They've shown zero inclination towards giving a single shit about the extent you are or are not their ally so far as that sort of infiltration et al goes. We know at this point that their reaction to being told straight up to knock that shit the hell off is to keep going -- why in the name of anything would we expect that to
stop, regardless of whatever agreements we came to? What matters isn't friendliness, but how much they think they can get away with, and widening the arms isn't exactly going to
lessen that.
Seriously, they're a country we've had openly antagonistic relationships for decades and they've shown little interest in substantially cooling that, that are belligerent to our actual allies and basically everyone, have little to no substantial gains to offer us economically that would offset the costs of kneecapping our relationship with some of the largest trading blocks in the world, and on, and on, and on. The sole and single benefit they'd bring to the table is potential strides towards nonprofiliation -- and, hey, we also know exactly how much their current administration's word or assurances are worth on
that front, too. So much for that "we don't build bombs, you don't invade" thing. State of russia and its leadership as is, trying to embrace that is how you get in a knife in the kidneys either from knock-on effects or straight malfeasance. They'd have to shape a hell of a lot up and mend a whole passel of burnt bridges around them before working to buddy up would stop being a significant net loss for the US. They don't bring anything to the table for us except pain and stuff we could get elsewhere without nearly the complications.
That
might change after putin steps down or dies of old age, or somehow they manage to purge a bucketload of problems from the country, but until then sweet hell we seriously don't want much to do with 'em.