This is a losing battle Neon. Today, people DO NOT understand the motivational morale behind the famous quotation:
I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.
---Evelyn Beatrice Hall
For those interested, this page explores the history of that saying, and how it relates to Voltaire.
http://quoteinvestigator.com/2015/06/01/defend-say/Fascinating, because the original item being discussed was a book that was very disfavored by both the government, *AND* academia of the time. Voltaire rightly disapproved of the attacks against the text and author (the book being publicly incinerated even!), and made the statement to publicly assert that being publicly or governmentally disfavored is *NOT* justification for censorship and reprisal.
Again, it appears that these days, people are all too quick to latch onto hot button items that they find HIGHLY disfavorable, and condemn, ridicule, and persecute anyone who does not toe their hardlined views on the matter.
See for instance, the swastika. Does it EVER cross their tiny minds that maybe, just maybe, the person with the tattoo is using the swastika CORRECTLY? (Protip: It was not always associated with the malign influence of the german national socialist movement. It is a symbol with very ancient origin and meaning that was coopted by said national socialists.)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swastika Apparently not, because their first gut instinct is to "Punch the fucker."
Likewise, it never seems to cross their minds that the very mechanism they are employing (humiliation, violent reprisal, and condemnation) to suppress an undesired idea or opinion is exactly the mechanism used by every oppressive regime ever--- But that does not apply to THEM, because they are *RIGHT*-- don't you know? (Just like the National Socialists honestly believed they were too! But don't let that little thing sting you too harshly. These people are just so much better in every imaginable way than those national socialists were!)
Really kids, just because you find something offensive, and some morons use language or imagery in an offensive way, does not mean the language or imagery themselves are always 100% in-line with such morons. Let them use the language, and the imagery. Just ignore what they have to say, because what they have to say lacks objective substance. Counter them with reason, not irrational hatred or violence. THAT is the way of enlightenment.
Reason demands that you allow people to speak without reprisal. Otherwise, unpopular (but true) ideas will never gain traction, and humanity suffers for it. (See also, Dark Age Europe.)
It most certainly is neither progressive NOR enlightened to engage in hatemongering or violence when somebody says or does something you dislike or disapprove of. The progressive and enlightened thing, is to attempt to see where they are coming from, and earnestly evaluate any truth their words may have, then go on with your life.