I do small direct donations of like $20 - $50 to people who are Black or indigenous and trans or Two-Spirit, you can usually find go-fund-mes online on trans twitter. I also give to organizations like
Audre Lorde Place. Another good thing to do is to give money to rebuilding funds for our community spaces that get burnt down, memorial/funeral funds, or to help victims of eg the Club Q shooting. I also buy books and games by queer or anti-colonial and anti-racist authors at full price, and make sure to talk about and share information about them in public spaces. You should also give to anti-fash or anarchist groups like Food Not Bombs. Give to the commissary funds of incarcerated transgender people. Give to groups that help those who were recently incarcerated. Write letters to people in prison. If you're in the US, attend school board meetings in your district regularly, and get others to come with you.
You might think that this is just putting a small bandaid on the situation but in my experience:
1. the groups that people consider to be reliable from the outside are not as queer inside -- the reason why people find queerness shocking or dangerous is that it destroys, subverts, and bends hierarchy and power. So you want groups that are queer, not just gay, because virulent anti-trans sentiment is coming from the LGB community, too. At the present time, don't give to groups that are afraid to make radical demands.
2. The trans people who are most on the margins are the people who are most likely to fight back in ways that undermine and disrupt the power structure that's killing us, which is precisely why the structure is mutating in a way that is going to keep people constantly scrabbling for stability and full of fear. Community care will help to keep the boldest and brightest of us safe. So: look for places where we are directly helping each other, and fund it. Ignore the lobbyists.
3. A lot of this problem is a problem with whiteness. I don't mean white individuals. All trans people are going to suffer in this period. What I mean is colonialist structures and thinking; the presence of two-spirit people in the Americas, who were fully accepted by their communities, was used as explicit pretext for the church-backed wars and killing that happened here. This genocidal choice we see today is not primarily or only about transgender people or queers as such. It is for the purpose of colonial and antisemitic violence as well, because often the presence of white LGBTQ+ people is blamed on ... of course, The Jews.
Give primarily to people of color and to their organizations. Protecting them will help to protect all of us. And give in small amounts and regularly, what can be given consistently and spread, because that is what will help to stabilize people and give us a foothold as the situation develops. It is going to keep developing.
(Last, spread the word: Genspect is a pro-genocide organization, and Gender Exploratory Therapy is conversion therapy with a twist. Nobody should be citing or promoting these concepts without being fully aware of what they are talking about. We need to make sure that others know that the "reasonableness" these groups exude is their
aesthetic choice, but their
political position is elimination)