And now I'm being threatened by a guy because of my plans to claim the abandoned domain that is right on my doorstep. Well, this just got ugly now, didn't it?
EDIT: ...I might need reinforcements. They've got a full dozen troops on their square, and since it's a large kingdom, this could spiral out of control. But no, I do not want a hostile presence literally on my border.
Ah how one can skew words to make it sound like you're a victim.
Let me give you a lesson on how this works - it does not matter what plans you have for a domain that is not yours if you do not act on them while the domain is still independent/abandoned. That domain belongs to us for weeks now, through vassalization of its suzerain (end of February). Not only that, Spud was there before you did anything with it, removed the inactive domain lord (March 7th, to be specific) and has plans to liquidate it.
And there you go storming into our domain with your troops on the square with plans to liquidate it or claim it or whatever (March 13th). So in essence, actively trying to steal the domain from under us, or just oblivious that it isn't yours to remove or claim. In the end it doesn't matter, and Spud sent you a letter of warning that you shouldn't be doing this and stationed troops there. So let me correct you, "hostile" presence on YOUR border? No, it is literally INSIDE our borders. Protecting OUR domain. In fact, Spud was kind enough to let it go this time GIVEN that you do not do this (read: to domains we have claimed) anymore. Here's the letter that was sent to you for everyone to see. I'd reckon more than a reasonable one, considering your actions.
Also it would help if you actually replied directly to us next time and not go crying to our King about this.