Well, just looking at a single golem, it is unfocused because: Away from people. Kept from alcohol. Lack of decent meals. Lack of trouble-making. Lack of arguments. Unable to learn. Unable to wander. Unable to help anyone. Lack of abstract thinking. Unable to be extravagant.
It shouldn't need those things, especially food and drink, of which there are plenty. It's hanging out in the tavern right now, whining about how it doesn't have any friends, it can't drink and it can't eat. WTF? It's a golem! Being unable to do those things is built into its very nature. It is basically a being designed to be existentially sad. That is kind of funny, in a way, but seriously, is that how it is supposed to be?
My golems are all Marvin the Paranoid Android. They've got Genuine People Personality!
Edit: Here's another thing, they actually do a lot of socializing and reading, even story telling but they always "feel nothing" after doing it. So they are, as designed, all suffering from major depressive episodes. They want to do things, but when they do them, they feel absolutely nothing, and thus never feel fulfilled.
That CAN'T be how golems are supposed to be. Seriously, it's a bug.
