Much forum. Such posting! Wow!
To many quote blocks. Too many side tangents..
Let me see if I have this right?
First, the lgbt crowd (who asserts repeatedly that they don't have an 'agenda', they just want legal recognition, which is fine.) Laughs, rubs peoples noses in a supreme court victory, backed by federal enforcement, with snide comments and pathological smugness, (instead of, you know, being good human beings and wanting to reassure mortified deists that God won't visit seven plagues on the nation or something, and honestly trying to be unifying instead of divisive), and being so emboldened by this victory, they feel untouchable. They push for absurd bullshit like "safe spaces", (because, like, those evil deist bastards just all want us to die! Fear fear fear! I need an echo chamber to safely feel frightened in!) Never mind that the very idea of such things is fucking offensive as fuck to otherwise benign straight people. (Seriously, imagine for a moment thus counter situation: the religious fundies succeed in total criminalization of homosexual behavior, then emboldened by that victory, start demanding " safe places" where they can be free from any interaction with those deviant gay people, because they are all pedophiles, racists, molesters, and worse trying to corrupt everyone's morals and send then to hell. Offensive as fuck in its presumptiveness, isn't it?)
When those people hand the lgbt movement their asses via the election process, as they have done repeatedly to the straight majority for years, do they take it with mature aplomb? No. They double down on the fucking safe space bullshit the way religious idiots double down on trying to "fix" gay people. Now they want to use state rights to fight the very power they were so smugly in bed with just a year ago, because the worn turned.
I am tired as fuck if seeing both sets if you losers build up castels if sand around your goddamn "sexual identities" and "religious faith" hysteria. You always, and I mean this the fullest way possible, and for both sets if people, act in the most disgustingly divisive, hypocritical, and shameless fashions possible while acting holier than thou from on high, then jump straight for the fucking victim card the moment the tide changes.
If you spent even half the time learning to actually love each other instead of demonizing and castigating each other, we wouldn't fucking be here right now, with a dangerous idiot holding the nuclear football.
Fuck.
It isn't the responsibility of the oppressed to comfort their oppressors. Fundies can suck a dick.
Safe spaces isn't just LGBT, and even if it was, its the one thing gay bars have in common with churches so again. Fundies can suck a dick. It would be rude if someone walked into Sunday mass with a dildo strapped to their forehead quoting Nietzche. Its not unreasonable for gay people to want a place they can be gay in peace.
Whoosh!! Missing the fucking point.
You say they can eat dick? They say you can go to hell. Everyone loses. That's the point.
Quit being condescending. I got the point, I just don't like that point. Show me two people with a genuine disagreement and I'll show you eight people trying to scream "why can't we get along" so loud they drown out the people who actually have something useful to say. Its not a new argument and its not a new perspective.
Its so fucking funny that you're asking LGBT people to tone it down because they
already fucking have. 50 years ago the gay rights movement and the free love movement where inexorably connected and the whole thing was a big experiment in alternate lifestyles. Now the whole thing has been stripped down to this ridiculously conservative "we're exactly like you! Look at us with our exactly 2 partners and our 1.5 adopted children, in our nice friendly suburban homes! All we want is the same legal recognition and protection that everyone else gets by default." Hell, there are so many gay people out there who want to throw trans people and bi and queer people under the bus and just focus on gay marriage. And apparently, even just that one fucking totally harmless legal issue, just equal marriage for just gay people, is too much to ask for from people like you.
That's why I'm talking about churches. Straight religious people (of which fundies are, excepting the closeted ones, a subset) already have their safe spaces and, in many cases, they
do use that safe space to bash the LGBT community. They also use it to provide community support and discuss relevant issues and a whole bunch of other fairly healthy things. And that's the thing, gay people aren't trying to take that away from the fundies. They'll still get their safe spaces. They just want that same security blanket. I have had/do have closeted friends who literally listen to their parents talk about how they're going to hell, then go to church and hear the same fucking thing from their pastor, then go to school and hear the same fucking thing from their teachers and classmates. Don't trust the adults in their life, don't trust most of their friends, wouldn't trust even the school counselor. I know someone who literally (and almost certainly rightly) believes they will be disowned by their one remaining parent if she finds out that they're gay. You want to say fundies are going through something equivalent right now? You want to say you know what that's like? Oh but I'm sure if we're all friendly and honest and hug puppies it can all just magically work itself out with no conflict and no hurt feelings.
Furthermore, they didn't "hand LGBT people their asses" because Hillary doesn't speak for the LGBT movement (neither does Bernie) and either way,
Trump got less votes. So stop trying to shut down conversation and stop acting like everyone agrees with you. You have something against the LGBT movement, say it outright. You can act neutral all you want but you're blatantly taking a side.