There is no victory nor venegance in this case. There is only death.
That is precisely the idea, general. That is precisely the idea. The idea that someone might "let go" of a nuclear attack was the single biggest contributer to the likelihood of nuclear war, and the idea that someone one destroy the world to get revenge is almost certainly the single greatest cause of peace between the US and Russia today, and every day since the surrender of German forces. If you are unwilling, even in principle, to mount vengeance upon those who would strike first, then logically a first strike is an easy and powerful tool to achieve any goal. The entirety of deterrence is the theory of this. Would you start a war over the world? Sure, anyone would. How about the destruction of DC? Or New York? Or London? Would the Soviets respond if we nuked Moscow? Sure. How about, Leningrad? Obviously. But harder questions: How about Kaliningrad? Or even non-soviet states, like Warsaw? Or even non-comintern states, like Belgrade? What if only the UK did it, not the US? Or France? The answer is that if you wish to prevent a nuclear strike at all, the
only logical principle is that you must say that even the slightest nuclear provocation will receive a full retaliatory response. As Kennedy said:
It shall be the policy of this Nation to regard any nuclear missile launched from Cuba against any nation in the Western Hemisphere as an attack by the Soviet Union on the United States, requiring a full retaliatory response upon the Soviet Union.