And unless someone other than you would like to come forward with tips to my playstyle, then I'm going to what I think is just, and keep it up to spite you. If not for this being a mafia game, I'd start ignoring your posts too.
I'll come forward. What's happened here is pretty simple, I think: you tripped over some local norms, the most important being one about image-driven play. Basically, scum is expected to prioritize looking town in its day game, while town is expected to prioritize catching scum (with image being, at most, secondary). The result: disapproval of players making scumhunting decisions based on how they would look to the town. Then you did the "I'm an important PR" defense, which is associated here mostly with the idea of scum trying to appeal their way out of being lynched, after scum trying that enough times (and it kind of undermined your effort not to get noticed by the scum).
These norms do not mean that you shouldn't try to avoid being killed as a powerful PR, of course, but they do shape the set of effective strategies.
There are basically two major ways to avoid unwanted attention. One, lurking, isn't fun and everyone hates it. Don't do it. The other is to look, well, average. Be in the mushy middle of town play. Don't hold back because you think acting would 'look odd' (this is itself a way to stick out from the crowd), but don't be one of the main forces driving the game forward. Question, attack, argue, fight...play pretty much like a normal player. Add new material when your attack would otherwise be identical to someone else's.
And never, ever say you were trying not to look odd. That looks odd.