As far as I understand siblings cannot marry.
Also, my attempt to use shared suites to get dorfs to get to know each other failed miserably, and might in fact be completely useless currently. As far as I understand, dorfs have to climb the relation ladder to reach Friend through the socialize activity, which is performed only in meeting areas. Once they're friends they may continue on (through further socializing) to become lovers, and it seems there's currently a much shorter hop from lover to married than previously (provided both parties are willing to marry).
My attempt to get dorfs to hook up used overlapping bedrooms, but as I'd provided them with cabinets, the started to do an eternal "store owned item" drop on cabinet (probably because the other dorf's stuff was in there), walk away 10 tiles, return pick up, walk away 10 tiles, return, drop on cabinet...
If a suite would work in 0.42.X you'd probably have to burrow the dorfs inside the suite with beds, food, drink, and a meeting area - probably a general deity temple, that somehow excludes others (e.g. sealed with food/drink delivery via mine cart or drop through a hatch).
Edit: I think some of the info on the relation page is a bit outdated. My attempt to repopulate the world with dwarves indicated dwarves have to be idle beside (or on top of) each other for several ticks to get the female pregnant (and they can be very stubborn in avoiding their duties to dwarvenkind), so it's not automatic (I'd guess that disappeared when impregnation via spores disappeared for animals).