So i cant get romanticly involved unless i remove that tag? Do i have to just remove the tag or do i have to put something else in its place?
Orientation flags are booleans: indeterminate/romance_male/marry_male/romance_female/marry_female
You'd have to set to marry the gender you can reproduce with. I don't know if illegitimate children are possible, but how can you raise a family if you're living in sin?
Anyway, that has to be set in the nemesis record so it will be valid when you retire. Setting it in your unit record won't do anything because you don't have the means in gameplay to romance or marry anything.
well there are cases of lovers having children but basically adventurers are kinda not interested in romance, I learn this the hard way all the way back in .40d but that was mostly because adventurers HAD no social skills or traits to talk to others to even become friends with. now you can make friends if you retire then switch to fort mode,
but if starting a family you want, you might have to do what I had to do... ignore the relationship romance all together and change the adventurer into a Pet/tame animal and then get them knock up that way.
I don't know if toady one orientation for animals means that process is out of grasp now but I'm going to try every dumb thing in the book of df breedin to see if it's doable Vanilla.
you could just grab dfhack and set romance and marriage that way.